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How do I stop being a coomer?
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>>34401998
Do you want to? Is it having a negative impact on your life?
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>>34401998
It ain't meeeee
It ain't meeeeeee
I ain't no gooner soooon nooooo
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Why stop?
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>>34401998
>How do I stop being a coomer?
find other things to do
structure your life/time/routine so that it's inconvenient to coom

that's it
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Cut back on the wank material consumption and go where people are so that helps you keep your dick in your pants.
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>>34401998
I finally managed to stop but i have nothing else to do, i have no dreams or aspirations so I'm probably gonna go back to gooning which sucks, you need a replacement, don't repeat my mistakes
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>>34402499
this
like i said >>34402181
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>>34402507
Not OP but how do i go about acquiring that?
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>>34402549
acquiring a replacement?
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>>34402559
I'm a social reject NEET who is scared of going outside, what am i supposed to do besides fapping? How do i find shit to do? Assuming i force myself to go outside what do i do there? I can't just sit in a public park because it's boring and people might call me a creep or something
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>>34402599
>I can't just sit in a public park because it's boring and people might call me a creep or something
you actually CAN and they WON'T, first of all
you can sit there for fuckin hours
there are dudes who smoke meth in their pickup trucks parked next to pavilions with kids at my local park, like 200 feet away
people generally mind their own business if you're not fucking with them
>How do i find shit to do? Assuming i force myself to go outside what do i do there?
u can find cool places on google maps & walk/run there, be careful if you do this by yourself but it can be fun
you can also hike/walk in larger parks or natural areas if they exist in ur area
i wouldn't suggest it though, i was more talking about creating a routine for your life
>I'm a social reject NEET who is scared of going outside, what am i supposed to do besides fapping? How do i find shit to do?
depends on what you want in life xd
you can look for ways to make money, these can be done from inside or outside your home
you can work on projects of various kinds
if you're not totally resigned to isolation, you could try joining a martial arts class nearby, see if there's one which isn't dogshit
it's a big commitment but you could go to college
you could get literally any sorts of job, part time or full time, to fill up your time & save money

you can also make it more relatively inconvenient to fap by reorganizing your living space, you know?
if it's very clean and open, it'll be much easier to just decide to do something else, with less friction or inconvenience stopping you
you can also keep windows open to make yourself nervous people will see you fapping
it's all a game of convenience/inconvenience between things you do/don't want to do
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>>34401998
Get a gf and coom with her in intimacy.
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>>34402635
>you actually CAN and they WON'T, first of all
>you can sit there for fuckin hours
>there are dudes who smoke meth in their pickup trucks parked next to pavilions with kids at my local park, like 200 feet away
>people generally mind their own business if you're not fucking with them
Well that's comforting, I'll try to touch grass i guess, hopefully it'll fix whatever is wrong with me even if a little
>depends on what you want in life xd
>you can look for ways to make money, these can be done from inside or outside your home
>you can work on projects of various kinds
>if you're not totally resigned to isolation, you could try joining a martial arts class nearby, see if there's one which isn't dogshit
>it's a big commitment but you could go to college
>you could get literally any sorts of job, part time or full time, to fill up your time & save money
Ngl i still would rather not interact with people too much because i had very traumatic experiences when talking to people, but I'll go out to the park, from there I'll see where that leads me, hopefully somewhere good, any recommendations on what to do in the park? I'm thinking of just sitting there to clear my mind and just going on the phone if it gets too boring



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