I've been single for a really long time now. I've passed up on a lot of women who were interested in me. I feel like a big reason why is because I'm insecure about where I'm at in life. I just entered my late 20s and I'm still working on my degree, still live with my parents, don't have any close friends and no actual career. A lot of the women interested in me were from my old job but they were quite young. I stopped myself from pursuing them because I felt they wouldn't be able to understand where I'm at in life. But the more I think about it, the more I realize I might be worrying about something silly. I'm gonna be in college for the next 2 years. I'm also gonna be working in the side. Am I supposed to just be single for the next 2 years? And there's no guarantee I'll be able to find a decent job right after college anyways. Maybe I'm letting my insecurity stop me from finding happiness. But it's still there. I go to a cafe pretty regularly and I can see glances from some women. But these girls seem young, I can't bring myself to go over and ask them out because I feel like a fraud. They probably think I'm they're age but I'm just some loser that's getting old. What do you guys think?
>>34402326Try to find some women who are in the same situation or worse.
>>34402337I do try but finding someone with that description is hard. Most women my age have careers by now. That's why most of the women interested in me were young because I work retail (like 5-7 years younger). Most of my classmates are also young. I feel like finding a woman in my situation is like finding a unicorn
