Did I succeed or am I a schizoSo my brother and his friend were at my place and I kinda like the friend. I had noticed when I previously saw the friend (literally a year ago) that he was trying to glance at me several times when I was wearing this kinda revealing green top that had lace at the neckline, so I wore the top again. Now they were chatting in the living room, and I came to the kitchen to eat some leftovers before we left bc I hadn't eaten breakfast. At this point I noticed the friend walking past the kitchen, into the hallway to the toilet. I adjusted my top, fluffed up my hair a bit and made sure to look down/focus on my food, and then he exited the bathroom. He should walk past the kitchen into the living room, but then from the corner of my eye I noticed he stopped for a second at the kitchen entrance, and I heard him make a weird sound, basically a groan. I felt nervous now so I still didn't look up. It seems like my brother had been walking to the bathroom at this point, and upon hearing the weird groan he asked the friend if he's getting sick and laughed. Now I look up but the friend is gone.I kinda feel like a schizo for genuinely believing he groaned when saw my boobs nglFor context, during the previous time, we were all sitting in a row and I was "behind" my brother, I wasn't really able to see the friend that time and maybe he didn't get a good look either lol.
>>34403125Even if that groan weren't directed at your tits, you should talk to him if you like him. Most guys never get validation from women, so you starting things off would really increase your chances. Im sure he would love to suck on those puppies regardless
>>34403324It doesn't feel right because he used to be close to my only ex, and they might still be friends idk. If anything happens he'll have to make first move since I don't want to seem like I want to go around dating an exes friends. So yeah this was me basically in a subtle way simply wanting to see if he's attracted to me by trying to bait him, but I still don't have any idea if he finds me actually attractive or not lel
>>34403343If youre not fat hes attracted to you.
>>34403359I'm not but that's just dishonest lol. I mean more like someone being actually attracted to you, genuinely being INTO you, you being their type.
>>34403369That's too early to tell anyway
>>34403369How could you put the standard of "actually being into you" when you havent talked to each other and all you've done is show him your boobs?
>>34403375Idk but finding that out is my eventual goalAnd I'm bodt count 1, always been shy and awkward, this is the most I've ever tried to "flirt" or "seduce". With my ex we just went from friends to couple so I didn't learn how to flirt or how to be seductive ngl.
>>34403388>And I'm bodt count 1Wow, so now youre going to your hoe phase
>>34403394Nope, I refuse to ever have hookups or anything like that. You can do what you want with your own life though.
>>34403396The perfect foid... I hope you find happiness and the man who deserves you
>>34403402If I was perfect I would've never left my first and always remaining with my first bf was my dream. Still kinda depressed over it . But I won't get into it here.
>>34403406Wait why did you leave him if that was your dream? I want to understand this
>>34403125You should let us see the boobs. With that specific top. Also how big are they.
>>34403343>If anything happens he'll have to make first moveWhy are women like this?
>>34403125if i saw a girl twice and she wore the same thing both times i'd think she's poor. i also think that sticking your cleavage out is such a bad way to try to signal to men that you're interested. especially in the big 26. laugh at his jokes, talk to him, at the very least.
>>34403125Dont date bros friends.Theres billions of men you can have
>>34403125Are you male or female?
>>34403519i know i'm just very attracted to him (and he's cool as well yes i have talked to him when us 3 hang out). that's why i haven't done anything overt like ask for his number. i'm also beginning think i admire him way too much, a relationship would be one-sided. so maybe i should just think of him as the blueprint for the kind of man i admire and find (in his actions) attractive.>>34403538organic foid
>>34403343>If anything happens he'll have to make first moveStop being stupid, and ask him out.
>>34403125I can’t know if he groaned at your tits unless you show them