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"sexual anhedonia" (???)(...) 04/04/26(Sat)09:30:01 No.34403361

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"sexual anhedonia" (???) Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)09:30:01 No.34403361

pic unrelated
grossposting, sorry.
i have never been sexually sensitive. touching myself is a chore, basically no matter where it is; my penis, my nipples, boobs, my hips and sides and thighs and neck and ears and stomach and whatever else could be considered a common erogenous zone all feel basically nothing at all, sexually. i have never (six years) orgasmed from anal sex, nor from sex involving my penis without personal intervention.
it was recommended that i buy a vibrator recently, which i did, and which corded fifty-dollar paperweight does almost nothing at all for me. i peed all over myself once (the first time) which was not exactly pleasant and orgasmed another time and hurt myself in the process. this has not proven replicable, and most of my efforts feel like actually, literally nothing, especially when the area is lubricated.

am i fixable? i was also told recently that i just need to get more horny, but i am pretty sure i have been horny and everything feels the same. ie, nothing. maybe i don't know what being horny feels like. mostly i get butterflies, either radiating from, like, the crotch area upward, or from my chest downward, and feel a pressure in my lower abdomen and that's about it. i don't know what i'm supposed to feel, if not that.
the only thing that feels pleasurable to me at all is applying pressure to my bladder, which feels really good, but basically only feels really good, and it's not like i orgasm from that. it starts to hurt after a while so i always have to stop.

please help or just tell me it's over so i can stop caring again
>inb4 kys tranny
looking into this desu

Anonymous
04/04/26(Sat)11:55:46 No.34403528

Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)11:55:46 No.34403528

>>34403361
That isn't sexual anhedonia, but never mind.

How's your mental health? Are you on any sort of medication? In particular, do you take antidepressants or antipsychotics? Have you ever had any kind of damage or surgery to your pelvic area or spine? Do you take, or have you ever taken, any recreational drugs, including alcohol and tobacco?

Anonymous
04/04/26(Sat)12:11:05 No.34403554

Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)12:11:05 No.34403554

>>34403528
>That isn't sexual anhedonia
hence (???) and quotation marks i guess i don't really know what i'm supposed to call this. sorry

mental health is very poor in general but this is the case even at times when i am very happy. buspirone is the only medication i take and it is not known for having side effects like this; plus i only started taking it recently. i occasionally ingest weed edibles and/or drink, perhaps twice a month. i puffed a cigar once and it was gross lol. these issues predate any drug use, regardless, including the estradiol and progesterone i have taken since i turned eighteen.
i have never had damage or surgery to the pelvis or spine.

thank you for responding nonny i am grateful

Anonymous
04/04/26(Sat)12:54:02 No.34403619

Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)12:54:02 No.34403619

>>34403361
Do you like being fucked in the ass? Do you stimulate your penis at the same time you are being fucked? Do you like men cumming in your ass? Do you like having your penis sucked?

I'm a super straight masculine guy but I love fucking submissive trannies in the ass and cumming in their guts. I could make you cum. Guaranteed.

Anonymous
04/04/26(Sat)13:14:57 No.34403651

Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)13:14:57 No.34403651

>>34403619
>Do you like being fucked in the ass?
not really, physically; i find it very uncomfortable if not painful. but i enjoyed doing it with my boyfriend for the emotional aspect
>Do you stimulate your penis at the same time you are being fucked?
no
>Do you like men cumming in your ass?
when my boyfriend did it but no-one else ever has; i'm pretty sure i don't like men anyway though.
>Do you like having your penis sucked?
i guess so but it makes me feel kind of gross

sorry anon i'm not doing like horny sex-larp stuff but i'm sure you'll make someone really happy someday

Anonymous
04/04/26(Sat)13:40:00 No.34403700

Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)13:40:00 No.34403700

>>34403554
>including the estradiol and progesterone i have taken since i turned eighteen.
Did you experience any sexual pleasure before you started taking those?

Anonymous
04/04/26(Sat)14:23:34 No.34403817

Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)14:23:34 No.34403817

>>34403700
no more than i do now, no. masturbating has always been a means to an end for me, mostly; prior to my transition it was to get rid of horny feelings and now it is more or less exclusively to prevent atrophy. orgasming feels nice obv but it has never felt to me the way other people describe it. it is a dull feeling. very rarely does it even feel worth it to get that far, for all the trouble it takes. it's more like a simple relief from the pressure i was experiencing prior than a feeling of its own, although it definitely is distinguishable. the rest of me never felt anything then, either.

Anonymous
04/04/26(Sat)14:27:02 No.34403824

Anonymous 04/04/26(Sat)14:27:02 No.34403824

question for those itt: what does being horny feel like to you? is the description in the op accurate? do i even know what that is?

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