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How to cope with being short? Especially in dating. It sucks getting instantly mogged by girls 5’7+. I’m 5’5.
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>>34405183
make other characteristics of yourself stand out more than your height
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>>34405186
Like? If I’m funny and outgoing I’m the dwarf court jester. If I’m stern and serious I have a napolean complex. What personality actually works on short guys?
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>>34405192
>What personality actually works on short guys?
trans
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>>34405192
>If I’m funny and outgoing I’m the dwarf court jester. If I’m stern and serious I have a napolean complex
People use "confidence" too often in this context, but that is mostly a confidence thing. If you're telling jokes to get attention and make people like you, then you're a dwarf court jester. If you're stern and serious because you want to look cool, then you're napolean.
>What personality actually works on short guys?
Don't fake a personality for love. If you're doing it for sex then whatever, go nuts, but if you do it for love you'll both be heartbroken.
If anything, do not be the angry type. The short-tempered short guy is both cringey and threatening. And not threatening in a dangerous sexy way, but more like a "oh this guy's gonna shoot up a building someday" way. The only method to avoid being the angry short guy is to actually work past any anger or bitterness you have over your insecurities.
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>How to cope
By acquiring currency and fucking bitches.
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It isn't the height it's this negative attitude women having an us vs. them type of thing with genders.
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>>34405183
Rate yourself honestly from 1 to 10 then go flirt with women of the same rating.
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Forget about your height. Live life as if it was totally meaningless and it will become that
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>>34405183
You need a posse, a bunch of friends joking around with you, so you may be shorter but you're still vibing. Or else go for girls 5'2" and under.
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Does the woman in OP's image know that men are gooning to her bare feet?
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>>34405192
i didn't say "personality", nigga

u literally just have to find a way to stand out
it's an incredibly open goal with many ways to accomplish
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>>34405183
Have you considered dating a midget? Her little hands will flatter another part of your anatomy.
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>>34405183
try find shorter girls, they tend to not mind height unless your shorter then them, for example am 5,2 the two guys ive dated were about 5,4
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>>34407170
Would you date a guy who's 5'11" or would he feel like a giant?
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>>34406836
Your gender literally gets raped from infancy, so calm down with the remarks
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>>34405183
>how do I cope
You don't cope. You accept that you will generally not have the appeal that a healthy 6'+ guy your age will have, and you continue to live your life regardless. In life and dating, there is always a bigger fish out there. For that 6' guy, there's a guy that's 6'4", and for the guy that's 5'2", there's you, life isn't fair and most people don't get what they want, just like we can't all be born billionaires we can't all be born tall. Therefore, you should simply continue to live your life as though height did not exist, try to find a girl if you want to, don't if you don't want to. Your height isn't changing so it's either continue on as normal or commit suicide, and the latter seems like a bit of a waste to me.
>t. 5'7"

>>34405192
It's cliche advice but be yourself. People might call you a napoleon or court jester, but if you're just being genuine and trying to have a good time in a social setting, who's really the loser? The guy just trying to live his life, or the random faggots who feel the need to give him a derogatory label?



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