Am I just a loser or some shit? I only get 1 like or match every couple of weeks off this retarded app. Anyone know how to increase that? They aren’t even ugly women that do like me either. Shit’s weird
reminder mods insta removed a guy asking for advice about how to safely read what was on a thumb drive earlier, in less than 10 minutes, meanwhile this and a bunch of reddit spam is gonna stay up for 30 days
>>34405467Who gives a fuck about that? Kek
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>>34405447It's all about the photos. If you're not getting any matches, then your pictures are not good enough. Whether it's because you can't take a decent photo or you're ugly, you tell me
>>34405447One thing that worked was saying yes to everyone, and then filtering conversations with the few ones that matched. It's similar to throwing a fishing net rather than being stuck waiting forever with a fishing pole.Although I wouldn't recommend apps to anyone.
>>34405447>>34405712How do you get good photos?
>>34405447Dating apps a shit
>>34406117Ask people to take pics of you doing stuff you enjoy. If you can’t do this you’re not gonna make it
>dating apps are 1 woman per 1000 men>every woman gets 100 likes every day>dude why don't i ever get any likes lmao
>>34406296That always seemed feminine as fuck.
>>34406117you get good photos by either being attractive and taking mid effort photos, or being mid and taking high effort photos.since you are probably mid, your photos need to show you wearing a good, well fitting outfit. You must be well groomed, and your facial expression + body language must be positive.Photo 1: Headshot photo. Photo that has your upper half of your body in frame, and are at an attractive "first date" setting. This could be a cutesy artsy cafe, or high end restaurant with good lighting, or idk use your imagination. Wear good clothes that fit and have a slight smile, not a toothy grinPhoto 2: Full body shot. Basically a candid shot that shows your full body with some reference points to make you appear tall / not shortPhoto 3: Activity/Hobby photo. again, must be wearing appropriate outfit, try not to make it look posed. Could be a shot hiking on a trail or at the vista, could be playing a sport, idk think about what you do for fun and make a photoshoot out of it.Photo 4: Activity/Hobby (See photo 3) Remember you are only going to attract hoes with similar hobbies so pick your hobby/activity photos wiselyphoto 5: lifestyle photo. Could be you on vacation, could be you chilling somewhere, take a photoshoot and find the photo that makes you look relaxed and dominant. photo 6: social proof. photo of you with friend(s). don't be the shortest person, dont be getting mogged on by someone else.
>>34406971>you get good photos by either being attractive and taking mid effort photos, or being mid and taking high effort photos.Beat me to it, that's about the most important advice you can get on this subject.The rest of the post is good though, but I wouldn't go over 4 photos. Photo 1 is crucial though, if it's not good women will swipe left without checking the rest of the profile. Lighting matters a lot, do some basic research on taking photos, shouldn't take you more than 15 minutes
>>34406971Why would I try so hard to pretend to be a normie when I have never been one and don't intend to change that
>>34405447the only way to win is not to play
>>34407239if you are OP and you are asking why you are not having success on Tinder, I provided you a legitimate answer that is supposed to gear you toward success. Your reply is basically a dismissal of my very detailed instructions. You are basically telling me, "why would i do that, i've never consistently got matches on tinder in my past, and i don't intend for that to change"I gave you the answer to your question, i told you what to do. its on you to do that now, or to shut up, stop complaining, and match with the 2/10 land whale tranny that is your 1 like per month. No one feels sorry for you.
>>34407387Not OP, I've never tried dating appsHonestly if I wanted a gf that badly and didn't get any matches on apps i'd just start cold approaching. If it's that hard to stand out on apps, then stand out by being bold as brass irl
I think the last time I used Tinder, almost every match was just some guy who tried to talk me into dick picks or bots.
>>34405447The apps have become unusable ever since around 2022. I don't know what they changed but I went from 5+ first dates per month to one every few months. Can't imagine how bad it must've become for people less attractive than me. But it wasn't always like this.
>>34406971thanks anon, ill save this for when i do download an app. It sounds retarded but im reluctant to start using one cause im scared of someone I know IRL seeing me on it. Just seems embarassing maybe im autistic I don’t know
>>34407879I think they're just hit or miss, you just need to wait it out longer nowdays.I used to never have luck with the apps, but I'd also delete them after a month of nothing. This time I've stuck around for 3 months and I'm average a few (2-3) new girls a month now.It might help I'm 30 now and filtering to 19-21 year olds, but its generally speaking been pretty good albeit the choices are still not the best, btu they're not bottom of the barrel.
