got called gay and stuff like that, i don't have a girlfriend and haven't before, im only 22 and a family member and their partner made jokes that I was gay, they apologised next day their partner didn't as they forgot (someone told them to apologise i pretended didn;t care really like wasnt expecting one it was all good etc). I'm not gay, i've been called gay since I was a boy by people, these people were older than me and did it, I don't look gay, and I don't like to get angry and spoil the mood so I didn't say much to defend myself, but yeah im not gay and feel like doing something to prove that to at least myself that im not, but i dont know im afraid of doing a lot.and one parent complains to me about the other parent or is critical of them to me a lot and i'll be honest it affects me. i've tried to say it affects but they like to get it off their chest their poinjt of view when the other person does stuff and I feel bad for us all to be honest.
realize that it is immaterial. who gives a shit, anyway? what if you were gay? there's nothing wrong with you now, and there would be nothing wrong with you then. you don't need to prove anything to anyone. it seriously doesn't matter. i know it feels like it does, but you have to recognize that, in terms of things people could think about you, being gay has got to be pretty low in the strata of import. it sounds like they know you aren't gay, anyhow; you won't be proving anything to anybody, ultimately.
>>34405693I agree can't argue with this. Thanks I appreciate the reminder if I'm honest I was getting a bit lost in my head about it all.
>>34405684"Gay" is the all-putpose insult label for people who are uneasy around you because you don't act exactly like them. It used to be "autist" anf before that "retard." No one is actually thinking you're homosexual, just that you're not a clone of everyone else.
>>34405727agreed I understand. I am glad they don't think I am gay, no offense to anyone gay, I just am straight is all.
>>34405757nobody cares what orientation you are faggot.
