Holy poor writing mb I'm abit tipsy

Bump ig, ts low-key dry today

loyal men generally shut out other women when they have a long term partner. Be thankful you stupid alkie bitch.

But does that mean I should be concerned? I mean he hasn't ever cheated from what I know but he does have quite a few female friends tho some are my friends too

Bump ://

Bump again

>>34406592
>>34406637
>>34406677
kek first off calm the fuck down, this is not a fast board
secondly, you can't control whether other people flirt with him and you can't control his actions either, but it doesn't sound like you need to - he's been with you for 18 months and hasn't strayed.

I will say this - the times in my life when I've been dating are BY FAR the times that I've received the most female attention, often from friends of the girl I was seeing. All many woman needs is to see a guy happy in a relationship and they seem to have an intrinsic need to become hyper-competitive whores and move in on it. It sickens me if I'm honest, I've actually lost a few gfs by asking if they're aware their friends are a bunch of sluts.

Thanks, honestly I do think I'm overthinking because he generally hasn't acted in any suspicious way, I have access to his phone and he has to mine, and I have realized many girls are like that which is really annoying and some guys too honestly in my experience, my only issue is that one chick asked him if he's single and he said yes, he admitted this just now and I asked him why and he says he doesn't know and thought she'd stop talking to him, I don't exactly know how to respond, but the fact that he's telling me all this is reassuring if I'm being honest

I had a pretty wild experience where we were out with friends and this old classmate of mine literally tried to grab my ass Infront of him, some people are actually disgusting how they'll do shit right Infront of someones significant other

Bump

>>34406536
Other women flirting with him is not something you can expect not to happen. But you certainly do have a right to expect him to shut it down when it does happen. If he doesn't, that is absolutely legitimate grounds for concern.

>>34406740
Men and women cannot be friends. They only have "friends" of the opposite sex because of proximity, such as school. The other reason is sexual interest, otherwise men don't talk to women unless they think they have a chance to stick it in, and women don't talk to men unless they think there is a chance they'll stick it in. This becomes more apparent with age when the proximity disappears.

He's still maintaining avenues open, made obvious by his denial of being in a committed relationship. Next is:
>oops I forgot
>oops I fell into her pussy it just happened I don't know why I did that

For the information you've revealed thus far that is the damning piece of evidence. I was REALLY dense as a teenager, and had female friends because of my social circles. I was constantly accused of being a don juan and trying to fuck everyone's girl friend, sister, mom, etc and most everyone assumed I did. In hindsight, I realized because that's what the women were after, except the moms, I had already developed a reputation. The point is, you may not view it that way, but every one else does. That's the social dynamic.

You don't have to freak out, he doesn't need to start cutting people off, but he already crossed a line because at the very least he wants the option there and took a step to set up it's availability.

>>34406615
Men aren't like women. If you have a fight he won't go to cry on a female friend's should with a potential for something to happen.
Just don't stop having sex though.
Use it as a weapon and you guys are done.

>>34406957
I personally heavily disagree and we both have male and female friends who are strictly friends, and even if me and him never met I'd never been with said friends, I don not believe he is interested

>>34406988
Why is it assumed it'll be used as a weapon - I was his first and he was mine so our sexual relationship is very particular and not very easy to even use it that way

>>34406988
Incredibly naive.

>>34407206
Lol. Good thing belief, feelings, and opinions trump reality and anything I said. Otherwise you might have to consider things beyond the surface and challenge those good feelings.

>>34406536
Just marry and have kids what are you two little tweens doing in your teenage drama cliques fucking around for, waste of time

No clue what I expected asking for advice here , but this shit is wild

>>34407206
nah only ugly people can have 'friends' of the opposite sex

>>34409094
I genuinely don't understand why so many people think this, I've had many friends of both genders especially as a teen and it was never an issue, I had one male friend a while back that was secretly into me , but overwise that's like the only time, I don't think I'm particularly 'ugly' but by no means drop dead gorgeous, but genuinely it's such a non-issue

>>34406536
Show the jealousy. It means you care. It's not bad.

>>34409209
I had a long discussion with him a few hours ago, I was overreacting but he did admit his fault,so thankfully we were able to sort everything out, thank you for being one of the few people to comment something non-negative

let him have his 5min of attention, you can post picture of yourself on internet and get 100 simps lusting for you, it's his turn now