I realized im a lazy fuck who cant even focus on something for a few minutes so i decided to change that.I quit porn,gaming,social media,junkfood.I also stopped drinking energy drinks and coffee since they were interrupting my sleep.Its been a week since i quit all these things and right now life feels incredibly boring and meaningless.I started studying math,playing chess and exercising since those are the only activities that makes me relaxed but im not even good at them.It might be because that i just started to practice them but that makes me frustrated,thinking im not good at anything.So is there any advice can you people give to me to speed up this progress or make it better?
>>34407200>I started studying math,playing chess and exercising since those are the only activities that makes me relaxed but im not even good at them.It might be because that i just started to practice them but that makes me frustrated,thinking im not good at anything.So is there any advice can you people give to me to speed up this progress or make it better?ur doing it the right way; stop all the bad habits & replace them with other things you want to be doingif it's only been a week, you should keep going for 1-2 months at leastyou probably just need to get the snowball rolling a bit more, and eventually these new habits will be easier than the bad habitsmy other advice would be to add more shit to do, if you canmath, chess, and exercise will probably get boring xdideally a sport or martial art or something, since you have the added peer pressure and social stimulation, and this will help you stay in the moment more
if theyre boring, you probably dont like those activities as much as you think you do. i hate picrel because he makes you feel like shit for being normal. quitting bad habits is fine, working out for health is also fine. but the key to happiness is to learn to love yourself. start doing the things you actually want to do. maybe when you were a kid you wanted to learn how to dance? or you used to draw a lot. maybe you want a motorcycle or something. go explore life and find out what you actually want to do instead of molding yourself into what you "think" a successful person looks like
>>34407200There are some things I've done for 15 years and I still don't feel like I'm good at them. You enjoy the process rather than caring about the result.
You quit a bunch of meaningless activities and replaced them with a bunch of meaningless activitiesYou want "progress" and want to be "disciplined" but do not specify WHY or for what reason or end goal.
>>34407200Listen you need to do that shit and shut up, you are an adult you don't do things because you like them, you do thinks because you need to do them. Your future depends of you.
>>34407200Have you considered staying hard?
I should probably do this as well. Delete all of my steam games. Hide my deck. Quit fast food and start cooking again. The only social media I use is 4chan so this should be easy in theory since the site is dead as hell these days. Porn might be a bit hard though.
>>34412303Seriously I love pornCumming is the best thing everI fucking love tits and pussy and assI see an armpit and I get horny instantly
