While I hate dealing with rude or mentally ill women IRL because they're mentally exhausting, my most consistent sexual fantasy is being in an emotional or physical relationship with an (attractive) female serial killer. Sometimes the fantasy is managing to get free of the grip of the succubus. How do I get over this? Why would I have such a specific fetish?
You probably like feeling "special" like you're the only one the serial killer made an exception for to spare. Not realising that in reality they'd end you just as they'd end everyone else they ended. So ur not the special snowflake you so desire to be.The other one is probably just cuz a succubus is heavily sexually dominant so you get to enjoy all that goes with being sexually milked by someone else
>>34407540I understand on an intellectual level because I have experienced the bullshit of putting up with a psycho bitch, it's part of why I find this particular angle so annoying to get over. I know it's illogical but it grabs me by the striatum regardless. It's like those women who read novels about abusive boyfriends who would literally kill them IRL.When I said "free from the grip of the succubus", it was a scenario like fighting my way free from the serial killer after she feigned seducing me into keeping the secret only to try and kill me to be sure. Metaphorical, not literal succubus, though I admit it was unclear.
I'm a woman with the exact same fantasy but I'm sure there's psychological differences.It's possible you fucked crazy bitches so now you have a fetish because that's what's accessible to you.You're open to experience and like novelty. Coupled with a past dominated by danger, judgement or aggression.And you might have been neglected so now you've got a fetish for being used, enslaved, serving someone who's permanently dissatisfied. Which makes you feel special most men would not be able to put in that level of pain.Either way, you're a danger addict.
>>34407583I see well it could be the thrill of the back and forth, risk or reward, etc spawning out of literal boredom with your life.Maybe there's unresolved feelings surrounding the psycho bitch you had put up with, and your mind is making up fantasies to solve the tension because of a lack of closure and tying up loose ends. Maybe you have to address or confront the psycho bitch directly in whatever way because your mind is still fixated on the unresolved case
>>34407603>You're open to experience and like novelty.Definitely yes.>Coupled with a past dominated by danger, judgement or aggression.Not as much as most people, but I might just be a little bitch.>And you might have been neglected so now you've got a fetish for being used, enslaved, serving someone who's permanently dissatisfied.Emotionally maybe. My ego-protecting logic is trying to correct that to me fighting back in the dream is a way of fighting back against people that irritated or took advantage of me without needing to feel the guilt of hurting someone who doesn't really deserve it.>Which makes you feel special most men would not be able to put in that level of pain. Damn, that got me. Thanks. Yeah, I am a bit of a sucker for putting up with pain on purpose to prove that I can. As long as I don't get injured, I don't generally care how much pain I suffer as long as I can get the job done. I also have chronic pain and have for years. All right, thanks, I'll note that down.>>34407604>I see well it could be the thrill of the back and forth, risk or reward, etc spawning out of literal boredom with your life. That's fair. Probably also sensation seeking like she said.>Maybe there's unresolved feelings surrounding the psycho bitch you had put up with, and your mind is making up fantasies to solve the tension because of a lack of closure and tying up loose ends. Maybe you have to address or confront the psycho bitch directly in whatever way because your mind is still fixated on the unresolved caseI lost her number and forgot her identity on purpose, so I don't think I could confront her again. I guess putting up more boundaries in the future is my ticket out of that.
>>34407622It's amusing I enjoy this fantasy so much I like being abused by men and women. So I too love evil women. And have also played the part of being an annoying BPD bitch. Less so a cold uncaring bitch, so I can't explain the thinking of people like that.I alternate between wanting pure Christian virginal men and Nazi torturers.
>>34407622Sounds like revenge fantasyPerhaps you need to find another psycho bitch but this time indeed put firmer boundaries and have it play out more in your favour
>>34407248There are 2 main fantasies involving this.First one is a common fantasy for both males and females... it's ye olde 'I can fix her!' fantasy, in which you see it as a challenge to try and fix that person, to make them change their ways, and become a more loving, caring person. It feels like a personal achievement.Second one is, like other people said, a fantasy that she'll hate everyone but love you exclusively, therefore making you feel special, like, 'I'm the only person that person loves in the whole world!'.Both are fairly common fantasies, but that's what they are: just fantasies. In reality, dealing with actual psychos is a nightmare in every level. The person who tries will most likely just end up getting manipulated at best, and killed at worst. Either way, they'll be discarded as soon as the psycho feels they have no more use for them.
