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well im very timid and shy and just not into trying new shit ig
well anyways i was on discord which is a thing i rarely do but this time i actually got gore flashed by some fucking random stranger i dont even know the reason. she just added me from a shared server and talked then i guess i was boring cause she said it and she just spammed texts and fucking sent gore. when i looked up the messages she sent on the server before i found out she was a minor??? well i can watch this stuff but getting this unannounced is just weird. what shit have this kid gone through to even have these stuff on her phone. am i the retarded or something cause every time i even exist i just get trolled by crazy ones idk if this is normal or not desu
am i being a crybaby for feeling bad about this since im supposed to be an adult?
one last thing in my city there has been a guy with deformities and he out of no where got roasted and bullied that he went on live and started crying wtv wtv now i just feel its normal to be cruel and you are just cringe for not bullying others iknow this sounds corny but mostly on social media’s like tiktok and twitter u see everybody get humiliated and bullied into almost offing themselves
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>>34407893
anon that was a glowie planting evidence in your PC in case they want to black mail you
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>>34407893
No dude, it's not normal to be cruel and like causing misery to others. I don't know what the deal with this girl or the people that did that stuff in your city are, but it is not the norm.

It's not about being open to new things in the cases you presented, it's about being decent and not liking stuff you believe are wrong or tasteless, so don't put pressure on yourself as if you're the one who did something wrong. I think you've showed character in not liking that stuff In doing so, you were true to yourself.
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Just sounds like you're a magnet for these deranged cunts because you're timid and easy and will put up with their inane immature bullshit. It's only normal for people with low self esteem + no integrity so they actually go ahead and drag down others to feel a bit better about their worthless selves. When they could just better themselves, they take the retarded route of worsening others to "even the plane". Find better company
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>>34407902
yeah i fucked up lmao i dont use a vpn sadly

>>34407984
>I don't know what the deal with this girl.
idk either but its weird about half the people i meet online are into gore (for example) some of them even get off on it too, i had to force myself to ingest stuff like this to feel like i belong with people like them

>it's about being decent and not liking stuff you believe are wrong or tasteless
so just to satisfy my own curiosity you arent okay with gore nor you watch it right? sorry it sounded like you are okay with watching but rather trying to make me feel better by being considerate
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>>34408103
well how would i act around a psycho who likes watching gore you have to understand that i still cant digest the fact that people are this weird for. no reason that pit feeling in my stomach never went away since i get sent gore
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>>34408439
You'd just tell them they're a sick fuck but they can do whatever they're doing as long as it harms nobody else. And already said it's not for no reason, it's cuz they try to cope with their own shit lives by seeking solace in other people's suffering, often in a retarded way where they ain't problem solving their own shit and just diverting to these sabotage-y measures/ways instead to cope with their feelings of inferiority, helplessness, inadequacy, etc
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>>34408436
>so just to satisfy my own curiosity you arent okay with gore nor you watch it right?
No, I don't make a habit of watching that kind of stuff. although I did come across it a few times along the decades I've been online, but it has always been involuntarily. Taking pleasure in seeing it is quite messed up.

In short, I recommend to not do things you do not agree with, even to fit in. These people are likely temporary, but your conscience will remain with you forever. It's not worth it to degrade yourself to please others.



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