35 year old neet loser here. So there is this cosplayer girl that seems to be a loser like me. Should I ask her out. I see her like 4 times a year at the same con. She is a loner, seems poor like me, she has intense looking eyes she is not fat but her belly is a bit chunky. She is very talkative from the few times I seen her talk which surprises me why is there alone.I can't tell her age but I assume maybe mid 20s probably since she is not walled yet. Most white women wall at 30 in most cases. Do I even have chance with her or 2 losers can't really date. Also I am not so confident since probably the age gap might be an issue. Also I can't speak fluently most of the time and she seems to love to talk and just may frustrate her.Any suggestions? I seen her probability like for 3 or 4 years and once I asked her for a photo. Should I take my shot.
Yeah of course. Don't expect much from it. But you don't have anything to lose from it either so why not
>>34408491>see her 4 times a year>from the few times i've seen her talkWorrisome. The fact is nobody will have an straight answer to help you.Your best shot is, go talk to her. Compliment her on her effort and taste, try to get her to tell you what she's passionate about, then ask her for her number and interest in seeing her again.If she finds you good looking or funny, you may catch her in the 3 months of the year where she doesn't have a boyfriend and she may give you a chance to know her better.
>>34408522Also, what makes people end up in a relationship is to have a common activity where they see each other regularly. Also, the window to interact with a new person you see frequently is one month, and hope that month coincides with the 3 month period in a year where that person doesn't have a boyfriend. If you take longer, the person will get the idea that you're spineless unless you have secondary credentials like leadership in a club to compete with her current partner, only then you have the license to wait for the boyfriendless period.
