Need mental fortitude advice, anons.>Be me>Just living with grandma (Grandpa died of cancer a few years ago)>Trying to help around the house>Not feeling great>I go to therapy>Things get better for a few days>I am deluded by the illusion of progress>I stand my ground on a single point because I am an adult and can choose to do shit when it is actually necessary.>Grandma gets upset (She has a mild narcissistic personality)>We argue>It becomes a shouting match>I am now angry and subjected to a xillion insults behind my back and under my grandma's breath for weeks on end over perceived laziness>Repeat ad nauseamI need fucking help and idk from who atp.
>>34410470Sounds like a good opportunity to exercise humility and patience, as long as you make the most of it. Continually remind yourself that either what she's saying about you is true or untrue. If it's true, you have no right to be upset. If it's untrue, it shouldn't bother you. The perfect middle path is knowing your own value while staying humble. A healthy attitude means being immune to insults, so all of your efforts ought to be geared towards cultivating the correct attitude.
How old are you? Teens to mid 20s? Don't become a serf for a geriatric- it's still early enough to get out of that trap before she's inevitably bed bound. Unless she's a multi-millionaire, there are 0 reasons to subjugate yourself to her dying brain. Also, therapy is useless without medication.
>>34410792This may be the worst advice ever given on the entire board.
>>34410801>Just wipe her ass for 10 years straight while having to be on stand-by at all times, bro!>Just sacrifice your youth for small chance of miniscule inheritance, bro!>You can totally talk it out with her, her behavior is not linked to dying brain tissue at all, bro!Fucking kill yourself and get raped- in that order
>>34410792OP here.Not an option atm. The job market is in shambles. Escape is an impossibility and getting hired is too, apparently.
>>34410470Invictus
