I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year. We have a great relationship, he is a great guy in every aspect. He is sober by choice, which is something I admire about him, although he loves partying and the party scene in general (electronic music and raves in general). Every summer he goes to a bunch of parties/festivals with his friends. He stays sober, but most of his friends get very drunk. Last time, I decided to join him, we went out, It was with his best friend who was absolutely shitfaced. I usually don't mind, but at some point we got close to get a picture and I could feel he put his hand on my ass and a finger in between my bottocks (not sure how to describe it, you get the gist). I was stunned, did not says anything at that point. His girlfriend was right next to us. Do you think I should say something to my bf? Or to his friend directly? We are all mid-thirties. I don't wanna break up his friendship but I also feel quite violated. this guy is also literally his neighbour so I will have to interact with him regularly.
>>34410698people do shit like that while drunk, if it's a one-off thing i wouldn't worry about itur boyfriend might try to fight him or something if you mention it, maybe don'tbut yeah if the friend keeps being pushy, you should maybe tell your bf
>>34410703Thanks for replying, yeah my intuition was to not make too much out of it and if he does something like this again I will confront him directly (and tell my bf). And you're right about drunk people, gives me more reasons to be completely sober desu.
