I peaked with my last gf. She was a literal goth baddie who also wanted to settle down one day have a family, but decided to dump me.I have found other girls attractive but I can’t get her out of my mind, she was perfect and galaxies beyond my league. I feel like I’m just settling for looks when I find the next person (assuming I do at all, it’s been three years)How do I get out of this thinking?
>>34410791First of all, why did she dump you?
>>34410791Christ. Is this picrel?
Once I got to my late 20s I no longer found the goth look attractive and saw it as really stupid and immature
>>34410791Her life is probably shit so she spends all day making threads like this attempting to convince herself she is better off even she unless she is not and is in fact miserable.
>>34410791>I have found other girls attractive but I can’t get her out of my mind, she was perfect and galaxies beyond my league. I feel like I’m just settling for looks when I find the next person (assuming I do at all, it’s been three years)>How do I get out of this thinking?idk but maybe stop "dating" until you've figured it out
>>34410904No one believes op is actually asking. This is a venting larp
>>34410818After 5 months she suddenly became very cold and distant. I got anxious too and that pushed her away further. She finally broke up with me using impending long distance as an excuse. About two weeks later she was dating someone new>>34410904>>34410918Not larping. I find girls attractive but it’s a combination of my ugliness and it being hard to meet girls not-online. I’m not actually going on dates actively because of the two factors above. Meeting my ex was a series of insane coincidences
>>34411846I heard those exact details before so yes this is a larp
>>34411907Yes I posted it before. Doesn’t mean it didn’t happen
>>34411966Yeah sure it did.
>>34412015What exactly is unbelievable about it?
>>34410791>she was perfectNo such thing
>>34412532Aesthetically and sexually, yes
