>>34411095
From my experience, real life escalation is something you learn from doing. And it's a very daunting thing to just do outright, you have to know what you're already doing and what reactions you can expect from her to be able to do such a thing.
For the majority of men, dating apps, Instagram included, are necessary to do and ask things and set up meetups and escalate, with less pressure. Because we're all pussies, let's admit it. And it's okay, because it gets the job done.
Being flirted with over insta is way less scary for both the girl and the guy, and easy to reject or accept your offer if she likes you or if she doesn't care for you. So I say yes, an insta follow and dm exchange is a great way to test the waters on weather you're a somebody or a nobody to her, and it's a way to set a date and flirt up a little bit if you have a vibe going together. So, definitely try

https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill
if you're chad, both are fine
if you're betacuck, both are not fine

>>34411289
>So I say yes, an insta follow and dm exchange is a great way to test the waters on weather you're a somebody or a nobody to her, and it's a way to set a date and flirt up a little bit if you have a vibe going together. So, definitely try
Okay I'll give it a shot.
I already tried ChadFishing her on an alt 2 year ago and she wasn't very receptive, said shit like she's not really interested in dating anyone and shit. She's a dyke now I think.

>>34411386
I am banging a girl rn but I am definitely not Chad so I guess it's not fine? I don't know. I know, and truly believe in, the fact that attraction cannot be negotiated. That said, I think the method of my approach could influence the outcome. Hence me asking about it here.