My girlfriend is pansexual and wants to go to a strip club for her 21st birthday. She has been talking about wanting to do this for well over a year now but I dont know if I should humor her. She has a habbit of consistently flirting with other girls in public along with at least one of my friends girlfriends, but the one or two times I have said that someone looks physically attractive I get the "how dare you" glare. I know that you can get into a strip club at 18 where I live, however some clubs require you to be 21 because of alcohol. I should also note that alcohol turns my gf gay, and I mean really gay.
>>34411743Sounds hotCould be a massive shit test
>>34411743man is living my dream and bragging about it in advice board. goddam man. i want a gay gf fr. invite her friends over get a fuckton of wine. get them all wine drunk. come on man. cant a man just watch sometimes. if I were you I would be renovating my bedroom to make sure there's a single seat sofa pointed towards the bed with all the lighting. get those studio lights and wear sunglasses. will look cool while you gawk at them. maybe you will get lucky and get a piece of their action. so jealous. so jealous of you. fucking hell.
>>34411750this is a slippery slope
>>34411743>She has a habbit of consistently flirting with other girls in public along with at least one of my friends girlfriends, but the one or two times I have said that someone looks physically attractive I get the "how dare you" glare.i don't think this relationship will last :/
>>34411749>Sounds hot>Could be a massive shit testPussy isnt worth this shit. >>34411750>man is living my dream and bragging about it in advice board.>goddam man. i want a gay gf fr. invite her friends over get a fuckton of wine. get them all wine drunk. come on man.She has almost no friends. The few friends she has are all about 10 years older than her who are in committed relationships, or at least semi-committed relationships. >>34411750>cant a man just watch sometimes. if I were you I would be renovating my bedroom to make sure there's a single seat sofa pointed towards the bed with all the lighting. get those studio lights and wear sunglasses. will look cool while you gawk at them.>maybe you will get lucky and get a piece of their action. so jealous. so jealous of you. fucking hell.Supposedly one of her biggest kinks is threesomes but every time she's down something comes up. Its gotten old.
>>34411743Hear this now: you can't stop her. The best you can do is set a boundary with her, explain your point of view, and that the way she acts is disrespectful to you and your relationship. The problem is, she is whoever she wants to be, and so far she has shown that who she wants to be is someone who flirts with others while being with you. A strip club, hangout with friends, any night at the bar, she'll have the opportunity to do these things and you won't be able to watch her all the time, nor should you want to. Stop expecting her to be different when she's giving you every indication that she's not and doesn't want to be. If you can't trust her, and especially if that's because of her past behavior, then there's really no question, drop her and quit worrying about someone doing things behind your back that make you uncomfortable. At some point it will probably progress beyond flirting, she'll use alcohol as an excuse because "you know how I get", and you'll be left feeling the cuck. If you have to worry about her like that, it just isn't worth it anon. Frankly, you should have shut that shit down the first time, broke up the second time, and never allowed the chance of a third time. This is who she is, not the rest of your relationship that you might see as good, not the vision of her you have, not who you want her to be; if this is a dealbreaker, then let the deal be broken, because she's not going to stop. Anyone who would disrespect you to your face like that will do worse behind your back.
>>34411743>pansexualdump her and date someone who isn't mentally ill
>>34411743>"pan-sexual gf">gf flirts with other women>let her do it>yet she doesn't tolerate you even looking at other womenYou sir are a fool and this will not last and will end badly. Don't say you weren't warned
>>34411859>>34411964She disclosed this prior to us dating, and so far she has been my longest irl relationship that I have had. Also good luck, I would say that about 40% of the girls I have met have had at least one fling with another woman, and I grew up in a rather conservative community.
>>34412091She disclosed this prior to us dating, and so far she has been my longest irl relationship that I have hadIs that supposed to make you less of a fool rather than more of one? > I would say that about 40% of the girls I have met have had at least one fling with another womanThey must be putting chemicals in the water. That isn't normal. Or else you are going to gay bars and meeting them or something. You don't need to wish me luck because that's almost unheard of in a normal society
>>34412116I grew up in a very bad area of the midwest where we legit invent new STDs. Casual sex, especially at a young age is considered normal. When many girls cant acquire contraceptives from their parents/school/older girls they will often bang other girls. I have known women who have told me that they experimented with girls for this exact reason despite not being bi or a lesbian... supposedly.
>>34412129The fuck. Where do you live? Some Brazilian slum?
>>34411743My girlfriend said she's pansexual and only wanted to go to IKEA
>>34411743>My girlfriend is pansexualIt sounds like she's more gay than pan.
>>34411743Short answer : Your GF is bi. Longer answer : you can either fight it, and lose your GF. Or you can go with it and get to watch her have hot sex with a woman. Better yet : threesome.
>>34411743My ex went with her lesbian friend to a gay bar for her friends birthday. My ex ended up making out with a lesbian there (she said the lesbian kept forcing herself on her multiple times but I don't buy it). She rang me crying but then told me that she wanted to break up and we did so a few days later.Not saying this would happen with you especially if you're there with her though. Just stick to her like glue all the time you're there, give her lots of attention, hold her hand, kiss her frequently, flirt with her, try to turn her on and want you so she doesn't have time to notice anyone else
>>34411743A paradox: Women want to be treated as property, but treating them as property will make you miserable and your greatest peace will be not treating them as property
