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Have you learned anything you think other anons would like to know in dealing with women, courting women, and relationships? Has it helped you in anyway? Any interesting observations/things to keep in mind when interacting with women?
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Its better to ask troons since they are the crazy females and more likely to be honest an direct about women’s needs

Feminine men who grow up around women are just as indirect an indecisive and dependent as other women
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I will say this and only thing.
You have to be extremely direct with women who show interest in you, and ignore women who don't show interest in you.
If a woman shows interest in you, you can genuinely just take her then and there and kiss her, and if she's not, then there's nothing you could have ever done. Attraction is instantaneous, and people who talk about soul mates and love at first sight are people who acted upon that instantaneous attraction. Those who don't act upon it, are left to second guess themselves and always wonder what could have been.
And if I were to add another golden nugget, an unattractive girl with a laid back and relaxed and happy personality is better than the hottest women in the world, with a shitty demanding off putting or insane personality. Always. I'll always pick a fat girl who's happy and chill, rather than a model who's uppity.
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>>34411831
Pick your battles wisely, it's what filters the men from the boys.
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>>34411831
>Have you learned anything you think other anons would like to know in dealing with women, courting women, and relationships?
All kinds of things. But nothing they would actually believe.
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>>34411937
It is very unlikely for an unattractive woman to be happy, the same way it is very unlikely for an unproductive man who sits around playing videogames all day to be happy. Also, you will grow to resent her if you're not attracted to her.

Same way its a lot better to be rich and have problems like stress than it is to be poor and have problems. Lots of these kinds of pearls of wisdom are just cope.
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>>34411831
>Have you learned anything you think other anons would like to know in dealing with women, courting women, and relationships?
Yes, women are infantile. Not intellectually, there are loads of women who are wicked smart and can perform alongside men academically or even outperform them. But emotionally speaking all of them are infantile. I have watched this unfold in female friends, female acquaintances, elder females, my mother, my girlfriend's I had, my wife, all of them. The pattern is this:
>As children, girls are more mature emotionally than boys. Boys are complete buffoons as kids. Girls are proper and attentive and submissive and polite.
>As teens there is a shift. Boys start to break out of immaturity and through a slow gradual malaise or a fast and reckless acting out, the boy becomes a man and natures into full adulthood. Typically by 18 - 21. Though this is changing thanks to cultural age regression and infantile influences

The women stay stuck. They are always somewhere between child and adult emotionally, always. They already had their emotional growth spurt and it didn't go very far. Men are slow and late for theirs as kids, but they shoot up astronomically and overtake females as young adults.

And get this:
>Girls know this
They know. If you ever wondered why a girl you date your own age calls you "daddy" now you know why. She looks up to you, emotionally, as though you were the adult and she is your baby. Girls know this, they know it so much they freak out if they are taller than average. They freak out if they have to buy clothing that's a size up. They want to to be small, petite, "cute". They want to appear as small and infantile as they feel in the inside. And they want you, the man, to take care of her. Like a baby. That is what women want deep down.

This isn't even a bad thing. It psychologically makes sense. She has to be a bit infantile emotionally. It means she can anticipate a real baby's needs better if you knock her up.
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I endorse this post >>34411937

Also, all women are whores/potential whores. Never fully trust or submit yourself to any woman whatsoever under any circumstances. Theatricality and deception have been their primarily tools to navigate the social world since the dawn of humanity
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>>34412392
>>34411831
>Cont
When you knock the woman up, then and only then does the girl become a full woman emotionally. Then she gets her final maturation spurt, the hormonal shifts that occur in pregnant women are the strongest any human can ever go through.

Fun fact: pregnant women's brains decrease 10% in volume. And then during and after, the missing 10% comes back. The woman's brain literally, physically, rewires itself in real time. In a big way. Then you get a mature woman. Not before.

That's why if you have a good girlfriend and you are serious about her, you get married and you knock her up.
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>>34411914
Not only are trannies just perverted men, but they're perverted men with the most unrealistic and detached view on women out of everyone on the planet. You couldn't have given worse advice if you tried.
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>>34412414
Forgive him anon, he has autism. Autists think gender is performative and not innate.
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>>34411831
90% of everything you'll hear about dating women from women is retarded unless you're talking to an actual bisexual woman and even then it's dicey.
Most important thing I learned is that most people who are attractive enough to strike up conversation with women at parties/social events generally have a demographic they do better with than others, and most of an individual's "success" is directly related to how often they are able to interact with this demographic.
ex: In college I found I did really well with careermaxxing MENA girls and could reliably get attention from/pursued by them, to the point where they made up the bulk of my body count despite me not actually seeking them out. If I wasn't a part of those circles (say, if I'd joined a frat) my numbers would almost certainly be lower as I'd be around sorority/white girls for whom my appeal is more limited.
Most people don't realize this, because said demographic is in all likelihood also not your favorite, and instead go approaching without rhyme or reason and naturally secure worse results.
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>>34413162
>90% of everything you'll hear about dating women from women is retarded unless you're talking to an actual bisexual woman and even then it's dicey.
Okay so you're not a bisexual woman, post discarded.



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