Advice for heartbreak with my first relationship? I feel like I’m going to die.
>>34412350Find new gf. If impossible, the pain will last longer, but it will decrease with time.
>>34412350Heartbreak is real and it really really sucks. But it is finite in length and you just have to wait it out. It helps to immerse yourself in ordinary routine.
You just need to wait it out. It took me like 1.5 years to truly not care anymore. My suggestion is to do something really difficult and life changing. Fucking sluts isnt the answer
>>34412632Exactly this. To me it was starring to run and doing a half marathon. Exercise can be a great way to take all the pain and anger and sadness away. Fucking sluts is a distraction in the very shirt term but it neither helps nor speed up the process, if anything it adds drama in an already difficult time.Heartbreak sucks but from the ruins of the former you can be born the new you. It sound like bullshit but you have the opportunity to reinvent yourself. Do it, lift, run, travel, try new things, new hobbies, work on a personal project, art, go for it