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>be me
>have gf of 2.5yrs, each other's firsts (m,f)
>have fight with gf over text
>demand apology
>don't get
>she makes secret TikTok account
>posting filtered and dog ear slop
>6 days no contact
>she had emotional affair last yr
>it was on TikTok
>same time of year
>naturally I panic
>create convincing AI photo
>girls legs resting against me
>AI detectors can't catch it
>thatsabingo.jpeg
>upload to Close Friends IG story bout 3am
>wake up
>she blew up my insta shortly after post
>haven't opened her messages
>she's probs sleeping now

WTF did I just do? I now face a dilemma, with 3 options:
1) Admit it was AI or a prank- this will restore the existing status quo of communication and she will lose respect for me.
2) Admit to her fears by saying I did sleep with this girl.
3) Downplay it, saying perhaps that nothing happened and she's just being dramatic.

Currently feeling like 3's the best of the above options, as it will deliver the intended consequence (restoration of my power within the relationship) through the use of preselection-induced jealousy that doesn't cross the line into unabated disgust.

What do you guys think? I need to get back to her this afternoon with something...
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>>34412597
That's why you don't use AI.
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I lost respect for you just reading this slop
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>>34412597
Well I think you guys definitely need to move on from each other. However if you decide to not do that, dont tell her it was AI. If she was already cheated its good to return the medicine and make her think you have options too.
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>>34412613
I have options, but I am not the type to actually go out and cheat.

While I want peace, like any man does, I am beginning to realise that this is kryptonite to a woman.

I thusly seek counsel as I perfect the art of jestermaxxing.
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>>34412625
It would be better if you actually took a pic with another girl and didn't fake it. Now you either face your cringe life or you live a lie, there's no good choice.
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>>34412627
The way I see it, this was the easier option on me emotionally. Because I do love her and I don't know how I'd ever be able to forgive myself if I genuinely cheated. Like with all things digital, perception matters more than the reality. Women know this, that's why they are the way they are...
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>>34412625
>I have options
I seriously doubt that as you have been cheated on, persist in a toxic relationship, and needed AI generator to put a girl on your lap. You need to be honest with yourself. You were a virgin before this girl too.
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>>34412635
>Because I do love her and I don't know how I'd ever be able to forgive myself if I genuinely cheated.
If she believes you did, what's the difference? The emotional impact is the same.
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>>34412597
>demand apology
You're gay
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>>34412654
there was a guy following her, also her behaviour had been off the last date and she'd been waking up very late time to time. Soon as I got her to unfollow, she didn't even mention that she'd done that and began stonewalling.
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>>34412672
She needs correcive r
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This reminds me of when my ex used a pic of a random Russian cam girl and said it was his ex to try and make me feel jealous bc he was insecure. You are playing a losing game because you are scrambling instead of just doing what you could do with less effort or risk: pull back. And stop acting so neurotic about her social media. If you want to drive her crazy, just start hanging out with your friends or working out more and act like everything she is doing doesn't matter. Focus really hard on a new project like it's your new love. If she still loves you, she will act more affectionate and less flaky and if she doesn't you can split naturally. And you will look better to the next girl. Also you don't have to get back to her this afternoon. Text her back at night and say you were busy all day and act completely unbothered. Do 3 and just play off that cringy thing you did like she's crazy for focusing on it. If she still likes you. She will let it go.
You are correct and that you lack power in this relationship, but it's because you are too focused on her activity instead of just living your own life.
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>>34412597
>3) Downplay it, saying perhaps that nothing happened and she's just being dramatic.
This, all the other options will make you look like a retard. Also, break up with her, she has already cheated and you're a spineless twink for not stepping your foot down.
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>>34412613
This
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>>34412598
Or tiktok, sheesh
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option 2. double the fuck down. don't be a fucking pussy, you dug this trench, now fight in it. Revelation 6:7-8, let the femcel come and see. make her look at the pile of inoculated arms.



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