rent is only a quarter of my salary, she techincally lives with mom but is over at my place every night pratically she helps with utuilies which is only 1/10th the price of rent. splits food and other shit but was tryna nickle and dime some shit and was talkinga bout splitting the dishes so its giving me some resentment i could be like that about the rent. i also dont want her to have her friends over and i want this place still to my self if that makes any sense in terms of contorl. lmk what i should do
You can't ask someone to pay you rent until you ask them to move in with you. And it sounds to me like she's probably waiting for you to ask her.
>>34412758she pretty much has, tons of her stuff and clothes are here.
>>34412790>she pretty much has, tons of her stuff and clothes are here.Not the guy you replied, but you need to formally ask her to move in, otherwise it will create an ambiguous situation in which she has all the perks of living with you with no downsides.
>>34412698no. like you said once she starts paying you lose your total authority on what happens there. dont be a jew, pay extra to maintain your position.
