I don't want fuck someone I don't love. How do I keep a guy around if I give nothing sex wise?
>>34413168By not keeping him around if you don't love him.
>>34413173Loving someone after a month is crazy and hard to find.
>>34413183You're can't even keep a guy's interest for a month?Did you consider learning to play Xbox with him or making him food and giving back rubs? Or are you too self-centered?
>>34413168Live by whatever rules you want. Just make sure you make the rules clear to people you date, so you're not leading them on
>>34413189I've kept them around longer than that, but I think older men work differently. They have been with other women. Do they?
>>34413168Well first you're going to need to decide to not fence sit, do one or the other. Randomly deciding that you love a man you're dating one day is going to make both types of men unhappy. The guy that's not willing to wait obviously doesn't want to wait, while the guy that's willing to wait until marriage views it as wishy washy.
>>34413168handjob/blowjob
>>34413326That's interesting that you didn't respond to the part of my post that matters. It says everything, to be honest.
>>34413389Anon. I put in effort. And you basically confirmed it's enough so I know I'll be okay.
>>34413388No..>>34413269>>34413360I already am honest, but thank you
>>34413168>trying to keep a guy you don't love around
>>34413536Woman need more time to know.
>>34413168Be hot
>>34413389They already said in the op that they have nothing to offer a man, but the possibility of sex. I'm not going to give any advice, because woe to the man that finds himself in the miserable web of such a selfish and self centered woman.
I hate this shit. You should fuck off and be a lesbian.
Men of reasonable value don't give away attention and affection over long periods of time without receiving sex. You will have to be okay getting a loser with no self esteem. Or just start sucking dick
>>34413168That is not really feasible in this world women createdAs a rule men won't be willing to wait for a woman in a world of female promiscuity, either because they have other options or because they feel like suckers waiting for a woman that as far as they know might have been promiscuous with other menAnd this obviously creates pressure on women as well, as if they want to keep a man's attention they have to be sexual with them, and thus any filtering becomes impossibleIn a world where female promiscuity is accepted, everybody is forced to be promiscuousBut remember, it was women that wanted things to be this way, never forget that
>>34413168You're supposed to mentally torture him by making interactions both hot and cold. Be all lovey-dovey one day and very distant to him the next, and make sure that you make him walk on eggshells, unable to know what was the exact phrase or action he did that set you off. Feed his ego by acting like his presence alone is something that you can't live without (bonus points if you through bouts of threatening suicide). Then he'll be both desperate for pussy and be hanging on patiently for you to put out. TLDR just have BPD
>>34413762Sounds like I can pull that off.
Very easy. String him along with vague promises and ambiguous statements.>>34416946By exploiting the human need for relationships. Men can fuck goats, other men, doors etc. That had always been available. Ipads probably stole male attention than any woman could.
>>34416946Sad but true. This only applies to older girls though. If OP is 18-20 people will probably believe her.
>>34413168Date religious men who would want to wait until marriage
>>34413168You don't. Get married first though.
>>34413168You could let him have sex with other people. If you don't love him, why is that an issue?
>>34413168You'd definitelly keep me around with that attitude but I'm sure non-whore men that treat intimacy and sex as something sacred that should only be done with someone you love exist in your vicinity. Just keep those legs closed someone will eventually show up
>>34418359Thanks. :)
You can show interest in a man without sex. I think its a good thing to be modest and wait. Only relationship I was ever in I waited a year. But im not one to talk my shit is all fucked up and I dont have the personality to court anybody lol.
