i'm 24, and i'm terrible in talking to women. Whenever i try to maintain a conversation with my classmates in uni, they almost always end up in me forcing the girl to talk, and when i'm at parties or whatever - even the simplest question of "what are you studying?" makes me stammer; and even when i do say that, i have difficulties in branching out the conversation from therethat being said - is there a way that maybe in my mid-30s when i get a job, that i will be able to find a girlfriend/partner? Does it get better?
>>34413897The good news is that most of it is fated already anyways. So no need to be anxious about it. Things are predestined for the most part.
>>34413955>most of ityou mean having a partner or being bad at conversations?
>>34414133Things are about to unfold in a certain way. All of it. There are ways to preview it, but that's for occult people like me. It's not for you.
>>34413897get a call center job, learn the soft skills and how to not be afraid of phone calls. they're fucking soul-sucking so don't stay at it forever, fuck off out of there and find a different one if you hate it. you're there to learn how to talk to people, not to make a wage. your uni education's for that.the more you're trapped in situations where you have to think on your feet in conversations, the more you'll have practiced the vocal quirks that let you collect your thoughts mid-sentence with some poise. for a partner, you need to be patient with yourself. does it get better? yes, then it gets worse, then it gets better, and worse than that, then better, on and on forever. You're gonna get dumped. They're gonna leave you, and then you're gonna find someone else eventually. You'll have learned things from that relationship. What? I can't tell you, it's going to be something though. But you getting dumped doesn't mean you're not gonna find someone else. It might take years, but once again you have to have patience with yourself.The more patience you have with yourself the more you're going to take care of yourself, and find ways to enrich yourself for the sake of being a more whole person.
>>34413897>Does it get better?no. it gets much, much more sparse. being in college is like Goku in weighted clothing in the hyperbolic time chamber with thousands of senzu beans, it's far and away the best time to continually talk to women over and over until you learn to seduce them. when you are in your thirties, the sane women will be hitched and what you get is intermittent interactions with weird divorced moms that hate men in general and do not respond if you don't already know the rules
>>34414167Isn't this site 18+?
