Should I try to save my relationship with my Latina gf (Nuyorican)? I've been dating her for 1.5 years now and everything was fun until a few months ago when she turned 21 and has been heavily drinking even more than she already did, now that she doesn't need any of our friends to buy her liquor anymore. She does it to deal with trauma as she was raped by her dad from age 13 - 18 which she only told me around the same time as her 21st (previously, she claimed to be a virgin). Now she's gained easily 20+ pounds and is no longer hot. What do I do?
>>34414740>Latina girlfriend>Raped by dad>Gains 20+ pounds easily after 21 and expiresThis has to be fake, and a joke, at the end of the day, stereotypes exist for a reason, man... I'm truly a Chud and an asshole for laughing at this, lol
>>34414740>Should I try to save my relationship with my Latina gf (Nuyorican)?Only you can answer that. I know what I would do. That is, I would cut off my losses. That's a heartless thing to do, and she could possibly take her own life because of that though. It's not her fault that she was raped, but it's her choice how to react at this. She should denounce him, and go to therapy. Damn it. Such a heavy thing, man. I mean, she was raped by her dad and it was only a few years ago. Damn it. Is he in jail or something?
>>34414751I knew about the memes but I promise you she had no signs of being one at the time she didn't talk ghetto or wear hoop earrings or all the stereotypes. I live in the Bronx so my social circle is almost entirely hispanic.
>>34414754Sorry to hear about that though. I have nothing against Hispanics or any people of color. I told you what I would do here >>34414753 But I cannot tell you what you should do, it's obvious to me that you love this girl, otherwise you wouldn't even be cogitating staying with her anymore, but you gotta understand that it's going to be hard to deal with all of that. My sister had a friend that passed through something similar, and she went downhill. Became alcoholic, lesbian, full of tattoos and piercings. Pretty sad desu, she was beautiful and seemed to have a good heart.
>>34414758>My sister had a friend that passed through something similar, and she went downhill. Became alcoholic, lesbian, full of tattoos and piercings. Pretty sad desu, she was beautiful and seemed to have a good heart.I mean, most people I knew that passed though that, couldn't deal with it and went downhill. Maybe it's because they didn't have someone by their side, maybe you could be the difference in Nuyorican's life. But you gotta understand that it's not your fault, and you have zero obligation to stay.
>>34414740Girls turn 18 and it's all downhill from there
>>34414753>Is he in jailFor an unrelated robbery charge a year after the rape ended, yes, the rape was never reported.
>>34414916>the rape was never reported.Yeah, she won't be able to move on if he doesn't get the consequences of his actions, the best she can do is cope... And I guess that's what she is doing. She should seek justice, the problem is, he could retaliate, though. Someone that does this to their own daughter forfeited humanity long ago and is just a walking beast.
>>34414937It would be impossible to prove he was raping her now sadly, so he'll never be charged with that.
