Got into a relationship about 7 months ago. Before we became official, he mentioned that he does not like having sex often. That was fine with me since I've been sexless and dateless for the last 11 years. For the first few months we would have sex (oral, penetration) maybe once or twice a week.The last few months I felt my sex drive go back up, not sure why but it did. Fast forward to about a month ago, he stopped having sex with me as often. I've only had sex once these last 6 weeks. I tried planning around sex but he would always find an excuse, i.e he's too tired or still sick from allergies/cold or he just wasn't in the mood. I try to talk with him but he's dismissive and has these excuses. I bring up how we had sex often previously but he just brushes it off and says he doesn't enjoy sex that much. I'm at a loss. What do?If it matters I'm 32 and he's 29.
Are you gae?
>>34414822you both sound out of shape get in shape
>>34414822>I'm 32>The last few months I felt my sex drive go back up, not sure why but it didThat's your brain telling you to get as much cum inside you as possible before it's too late.
>>34414822He was honest from the start and you accepted the ground rules. Now YOU have changed. It is not his responsibility to change with you, but yours to decide if you can no longer live by the original contract
>>34414841Yes>>34414842That's a good point, we have both gained weight since this relationship started.>>34415592Yeah but we had sex often in the first phase of the relationship, now it's almost a dead bedroom. That's why I'm so confused. How come he wanted and initiated sex the first few months and now stopped all of a sudden?
>>34415933Maybe you're just lousy in bed
>>34415326>That's your brain telling you to get as much cum inside you as possible before it's too late.Yes I believe he is right. Just your brain telling you >>34414822 need to get a kid before its too late.
>>34416042>>34415326I am a gay male
