I found a girl that's literally me but female. She's pretty, loves rock music, wears the color black, has an ironic sense of humor, hates Christians, doesn't like inconveniencing people, and likes to do dumb shit for fun. For once I thought I finally found the girl I was gonna marry until she told me she didn't want kids. I was heartbroken. I've been really picky with women until now because I don't want to make the same retarded decisions my parents did (divorced and poor). But I feel like if I hold out for my ideal match, I'm gonna be single forever. Should I just start compromising? What are the qualities that matter in having a successful relationship?
>>34415204>hates Christians> she told me she didn't want kidswhat a shock
>>34415204You aren't a roastie with rotting eggs, anon. You have time. You have no biological clock. She's on the clock, not you. Don't just settle, that's what bitches do.
>>34415204Date her and if you find someone who wants kids just fuck her instead.This is what normal people do. Don't deny yourself happiness now because some imaginary bitch might want you later. You can have both
>>34416336>You have no biological clock.Men absolutely do have a biological clock. Fertility crashes in your late 40s, and the age of the father has more influence than the age of the mother on the chances of the child child being autistic.
>>34415204The "perfect match" is a myth. People can be within loving, fulfilling relationships with partners that they, quite honestly, have little in common with.It really becomes a question of humour, temperament, communication, and life goals.Some of these can change or be acquired over time. Others are static in comparison.If she laughs with you, works with you, and wants the same things out of life then you've found a winner. Unfortunately, your current girl has pretty significant deviation on the final criteria. She may feel differently one day but you may be waiting for a change that will never come.
>>34416726Jewish Feminist propaganda
>>34416330fpbp, anyone that's not a Christian is unserious and just fucking around.
>>34418700I actually want to rectify this statement and say "religious people" instead of "Christians."
>>34415204>loves rock musicI texted one that likes prog rock. So annoying. Why can't you like music that's made after 2000 too?
>>34416371Yea let's waste her time and mine. Good idea druggie loser anon.
>>34415204Ditch her, You're gonna hate your life after she leaves
>>34418735I feel like im wasting my time with a guy who constantly lies and , so lol why not switch it up?
>>34415204Hey, I don't know if I should brag or you'd be interested in a woman like me, but I dress like pic related and don't hate Christians and want kids.Basically I went through the edgy goth phase and still dress like that, have tattoos, but I'm more mentally stable. I still enjoy the same edgy interests as before, too. And anime.So what I'm saying is if you like goth girls set the standard to those who've smartened up and don't give you bullshit. I'm past self was quite retarded and not your problem, so choose wisely. You must not fix anybody. Nobody must fix you. You must fix yourself.
>>34415204>hates ChristiansYou're both going to get what you deserve in the day of judgment. Have fun being a degenerate in this life, it's all you'll amount to.
>>34419928Not OP but I'm a Christian myself anon. Before becoming a disciple to Christ, I was a disciple of Satan. Not directly, because no one directly is a disciple of Satan, that's how the devil arranges his legion, scattered on purpose. What I wanna say is you need to check yourself because when we are not careful we do the devil's work. What you said to the OP was devil's work. Don't panic because everyone does it from time to time. The sin of pride is nasty to overcome, but that's why it's the king of sins, its the one that gets us all. Anyway brother in Christ, when I used to hate Christians and when I thought I hated Christ, it was not Christ I hated, I thought I did. It was the zealotry I hated. The sort of message you wrote to OP. And yourself, if you were lost and refused to come back home, and you were withering away, and you started to maybe think of coming home, but the people in that home told you "You deserve to freeze to death, you will meet your end and it's all your fault, it's all you amount to." Would you want to come home? Would you love the inhabitants of that home, or would you hate them? If that home read "Christian" on the front door, but behind that door there was no Christ in that home, and you were tasked to represent Christ to do His will as it is in Heaven, and you represented Him by telling others they only amount to degeneracy. Would you be doing Christ's name any dignity? I can tell you as a former disciple to Satan, the devil smiles when this happens. Because you assisted him in claiming yet another soul, another one of God's images to be destroyed.
>>34415204>What do I look for in a girl?Do not look for anything in a girl. Simply allow her to show you what she is, and then experience who she is. There's two things you are going to learn as a man when you're young or inexperienced with dating women:1) You do not want a girl who is 'literally you but female'. That is what everyone who first tries to love falls for, and it bites them in the ass later every time. Because the point of love and relationships is about the "other". It is not just about (you). It's about the both of you, and how you love one another. You are supposed to date another human, not your mirror reflection. Those who try it better make damn sure they have a good self esteem and do not have a single shred of self hatred for themselves. Because if they do, when they find a girl who is just like themselves, the girl will hate you too. 2) Young girls do not want to disappoint. They are xtremely self conscious. Their worst nightmare is they are a disappointment, a let down, shameful and unlovable. They want to feel like a shiny gemstone the man can be proud to wear on the crown of his heart. She fears she has imperfections, cracks and ugliness and she will be thrown away. So to prevent this a young girl will imitate you. She will pretend to love everything you love, because she knows you love those things and she thinks if she resembles those things you will love her too. But the thing that gives away their little game is childbirth. Young women are terrified of it, it's scary to them. Because it is scary, even mothers who want kids and had kids find it terrifying. I'm a dad, I saw it up close. It is terrifying. So they say they don't want kids because they are saying "I don't want to be scared". And then the grand image you have of them shatters into a million pieces. She could still have kids, and love her kids. What girls actually mean is they are afraid of pain and fear. If you are a good man you help her through it.
>>34415204>>34420062>ContSo what you should be doing is not looking for anything in a girl. You should be noticing what she adds to your life. When you meet the good woman (some call her 'the one' I don't necessarily believe in oneitis. Because it's not about one it's about two) when you meet your other half we'll say, you notice two more things as a man..You can get the feeling her face is the last face you are going to see before you die. I don't mean that in a morbid sense or even a dramatic romantic sense just the way it is. When you are young you think you found the right woman because you see her body, or maybe you only see what she can do for you. That's the bullshit realization. The real one is you see her face and you have this knowledge that comes from nowhere that this woman is the one whose going to bury you. And I don't mean with her boobs, I'm talking 6 feet under, she's going to be the old lady crying her eyes out that you have perished. And another thing you notice is a perspective shift. If you were a black or white thinker, or all or nothing thinker, and you were rigid and you saw life as this dull or repetitive or idk, 'grey' way. Not a depression but just mundanity. Well, when she comes along everything has color. Not literally but emotionally life has color. Like your life was a coloring book it used to be empty of color and this woman has just started to color your life. That's what you notice. And if you are unfortunate and she dies before the man, do you know what old men always say when mourning their beloved? "I've lost the color of my life. The color is gone."So just keep notice for those things
>>34415204>Wears blackWow. She sounds incredible. Truly
>>34419928Christians are pretty hatable. You would tolerate 10 years in a gulag. That's exactly what you deserve.
>>34420905Christ's thoughts on True & False disciples:>“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’"Matthew 7:21-23As a non-believer yourself, what are your thoughts on this? Do you think Christ is right to reject hypocrites who demonize non-Christians?
>>34420178Wow anon, it sounds almost poetic. Did you find such lady for yourself? How does it feel?
