I'm ugly, and I'm absolutely ashamed of my appearance. But then I see people uglier than me exist without being bothered by their ugliness, both online and offline. Like, I went to Instagram, and it was full of ugly people staring into the camera, totally unconcerned about their odd skull shape, facial asymmetry, crooked teeth, etc. Meanwhile, I compare myself to literal models, and believe I have to looksmaxx to be able to use a cash register manned by a female cashier.
>>34415421Im also ugly, and I used to be same as the people you are describing. I think a lot of ugly people just lack self-awareness. Or they think that the horrible ways in which they are treated are just normal, and everyone is treated like that. It took me until I was 19 to realize I was ugly and the reason I was treated like a punchline and unable to get a girlfriend for the entirety of my youth was because of my face. Until that point, I thought I just needed to work on my personality and become a more interesting person. Lol, just thinking back makes me cringe. I was the exact same way as the people you are talking about, and thought the way that people I called my friends treating me like a subhuman was normal. But yeah, thats just my perspective since I used to be unaware.
>>34415441I realized I was ugly when I was 15, but not before I permanently crippled myself by trying to punch above my weight and getting rejected in horrible ways.
>>34415441Same guy here but forgot to add this: I think a lot of people dont actually know what makes someone attractive/unattractive. Once you realize you are unattractive, you start to research ideal facial ratios and whatnot, but most people are oblivious cant really recognize what makes someone attractive and just attribute it to them having a good "personality", lol. I was even like this before I realized I was ugly, I would subconsciously dislike other ugly people, I distinctly remember trying to distance myself from other people in the EXACT same situation I was in, because my stupid ape brain found it offensive just to be around them. And I found myself more forgiving of attractive people, and was willing to be a punching bag for them. God, I was such a fucking retard.
I just don't give a fuck, I don't compare myself to other men, and I enjoy looking at women if I see eye candy in public.
>>34415461Rough. I was the exact same way in high school as well. Chasing after all of the pretty girls because in my deluded mind they had the best "personality", even though I was subhuman to them. I actually distinctly remember another facially challenged girl being interested in me after hearing about it from a friend but I was so fucking stupid and blew her off because of her face, even though I was no better and probably worse.
if you don't want a kid its literally zero importance
Most people are ugly. Nothing to be ashamed of, own it. Better someone who knows their ugliness than someone who thinks they're better than everyone else just because they think they look better than everyone else
>>34415589You misunderstood. Shame = low confidence, self pity, etc. And also, bring it up if you want to. No point sweeping it under a rug. If there's a problem then other people can call you out on it and you can fix it. You won't know until you actually bring it up.
