About a year ago, right before I got married, my sister found out my fiancée was cheating on me. Instead of telling me, she confronted my fiancée privately outside her workplace. They talked it out in my sisters car, and my sister made a deal with her, she wouldn't tell me about the cheating as long as it never happened again.My fiancée agreed, apparently crying and promising it was a mistake and it won't happen again. And that was it. No one told me. The only people who knew were my sister, her (now ex) boyfriend, and my fiancée.I went into my marriage completely unaware. Now im having second thoughts about the paternity of my newborn daughter.Last night, my sister broke up with her boyfriend and he told me, he even showed me a voice recording from the conversation my sister and my now wife had in the car. I don't even know who was the guy she cheaten on, how long it lasted, if it was a one time thing or a recurrent affair. I feel backstabbed. Why would she cover this up? Why would she cover up for her? Im her brother, is it because my wife is a woman? Women protect each other? I don't even know how to bring this up, or what to do from here on. I haven't told anyone IRL that I know about this.
this feels like a bait thread, or reddit copypasteregardless, try not to start too much shit with her, and try to take care of your daughterthere's a good chance getting divorced is best for everyone involvedthat is very fucked up & i'm sorry
>>34417431>Why would she cover this up? Why would she cover up for her? Im her brother, is it because my wife is a woman? Women protect each other?In my experience, women would rather gossip and make decisions as a group rather than to talk to a man directly. When you are dating a woman, you are really dating all of her friends at the same time.
>>34417431Even if the kid is yours you have to walk away. Your sister is not your sister anymore. She is a demon. Cut her off. Do the DNA test, visit the 5 best lawyers of your city, and try proving in court that you walked into this marriage blindfolded.
>>34417454I'm not OP and idk why, but I want to suckerpunch your face with all my strength.
>>34417457I also want to suckerpunch you.His sister covered that up cause she is also a whore. They should both be stoned.
>>34417465When did they give Afghanis internet access? Silence.
>>34417472>When did they give Afghanis internet access? Silence.I'm not Afghani. Foid. If you do something bad, you gotta pay, but somehow western society has forgotten this, there's no punishment for women somehow, and retards trying to justify bad behavior only worsen the situation.
>>34417465>His sister covered that up cause she is also a whore.Yeah, she was probably thinking about the time she did the same before, or how she could do the same in the futureFucking whores man
>>34417431Get better bait. This is just pathetic.
>>34417431If your wife ended the affair a year ago, your newborn is not the other guy's.
>>34417431Your sister did not tell you for one of two reasons:- She was convinced you would commit a crime in reaction to the affair (assault or kill your cheating wife, or assault or kill the guy she was fucking with) and because you are her brother she did not want to see you imprisoned or put in danger- She was convinced you are a sensitive guy, the type of guy who takes bad news really hard and may have worried you would kill yourself or commit self harm. And because you are her brother she wanted to protect you from that. The reason why she was amicable with your fiancee and cut a deal with her is because she wanted to use fear to control your fiance/wife. Your sister is actually based, kind of. Your sister is a queen bee, a Stacy female Chad. She more or less emotionally black mailed and threatened your wife to get her to behave. She did that by telling her that if she doesn't do what she tells her, she will expose her. And your sister did that for you. Which she should not have, because you entered a martial vow that had information hidden from you. That is grounds for annulment in most religious orders.If you make a vow and you were not fully informed of who your wife is or what she is as a person and you were lied to when making the vow, you can get the marriage erased.
>>34419118Don't take this anons word for it. Ask your sister why she didn't tell joy.
>>34419118As a dude I say these are the most likely 2 explanations
If it were your brother would he have done the same thing?
>>34417431I'm sorry anon. I would get a paternity test and then if that's positive (it's your child), I would move on until and unless you know that she has betrayed your trust anew.if your wife and sister don't know that you know yet (doubtful...), then maintain the perceived status quo (in your wife's mind) because that might be the best case scenario.
