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Is it a red flag if a woman doesn't have any hobbies?
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>>34418387
no, it's probably a good sign
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it's honestly not that much of a "flag" either way on its own
but it's probably a good sign more often than not

time to watch this thread go to shit...
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>>34418387
>Is it a red flag if a woman doesn't have any hobbies?
Yes. A woman with no hobbies will look to you 24/7 to entertain them. What's worse? If their friends have girls night out, there are guys in that group or outside with the women, you will be cucked eventually. Women should always have hobbies and things to occupy their time or they end up over thinking thing in solitude, and doing stupid shit.
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>>34418410
schizophrenia & fearmongering
literally trying to rob you of your future by inciting fear
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>>34418387
If you want your kids to grow up exposed to traditional crafts like gardening and sewing and cooking or any other cultural practice you find valuable, your future wife should probably at least dabble in it since she's the one who will be exposing them to it most likely
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>>34418411
He's not wrong. Unless the woman is a workaholic it is a bad sign they have no personal hobbies. That means they will depend on you for all of their entertainment and will drag you away from your own interests if it doesnt appeal to them. I think anybody like that, male or female, is pretty much an NPC and I would not want them in my life.
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>>34418387
I think so. I wouldn’t want my kids to grow up with a mom who doesn’t do anything beyond scrolling on her phone and eating chips.
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>>34418387
It's a red flag for anyone.
Granted, the woman that you have in mind may have a hobby that isn't readily apparent. Like hiking, cooking, or reading
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>>34418387
Women's hobbies usually are instagram, tiktok and maybe netflix.
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>>34418387
It's not a red flag, it's a blue flag. There's lots of types of flags.
Red flag = a behaviour that indicates they will abuse you, physically or mentally and will enjoy doing so.
Orange flag = a behaviour that indicates they will abuse you, physically or mentally and will not enjoy doing so, but can't help themselves because poor impulse control
Yellow flag = Has no behaviours that will abuse you, mentally or physically. But they are neurotic and will delusionally accuse you or suspect you of trying to (they survived abuse and they see the devil in anyone's face)
Green flag = a behaviour of maturity, reciprocation, stability and responsibility
Blue flag = a lack of a behaviour, a lack of function that suggests depression or anxiety or lack of boundary or self respect. Can't harm you, but may be a bummer to be around.
Grey flag = indicators of nothing. Not good, bad, sad, or tragic. Just basic human behaviors.

Lack of hobbies indicate possible blue flag but it depends if the person has the time or energy to engage in them or not. Someone who has to study or work throughout most of the week and can't.

Also there's also such a thing as having too much hobbies, where someone doesn't do anything except their hobby, neglecting the other parts of life. That's a blue flag as well.

Blue flags can be deal breakers for some people, but in my experience majority of people don't see it as deal breaker material
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she won't cuck you at her hobby with a high status male there
but she will look to you for entertainment, which is annoying as fuck
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no none of them have hobbies
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>>34420310
You ever considered she just wanted quality time with you? Because she loves you?
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>>34418966
Doomscrolling and ewhoring
That means no hobby.

>>34418969
Are you describing humans? Your abuse depersonalionized?
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>>34418387
Not in itself, but endlessly scrolling social media and/or binging modern media is a massive red flag, and that's what a fair number of the "no real hobbies, idk" women are like.
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>>34418387
Hobbies are frequently a byproduct of a parasitic existence when others do most of the work needed by sustaining your life.
Reflect about how much spare time you would have to spend in consumerism if you have to be totally autonomous.
A high value women would spend very little time in hobbies. Of course, this also applies to men.
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>>34420324
sure, but generally women want more of it than males. Many men (especially on here) value occasional peace and quiet.
Deep work on your hobbies and interests is very hard if you have a woman that wants your attention 24/7

You have to find a compromise that makes both sides happy, but a woman not having any hobby makes this a predictable conflict nexus, so it's useful to keep in mind before getting involved with her
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>>34421483
You make a good point, I can't argue with that.
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>>34418387
Only a minority of people have hobbies that aren't consumption based. Like 2/3 of people that play video games are bad at video games because they just kind of passively interact with the experience.
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>>34418387
Yes, because if a woman has no hobbies, it means she doesn't work out. If she doesn't work out, she is probably fat. If she is fat, I can't date her.
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>>34421671
The logic seems solid there but you forget, not every hobby needs to involve exercise. What if someone's hobby is chess? Reading? Knitting? Stamp collecting?
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>>34421688
My strategy still works because it sets a standard. However, you may need additional filters to negate the presence of ham.
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>>34421699
The two filters you need are simple, I can give you them:
- Has used or is using SSRI medications
- Has used or is using birth control pills

Both of those bloat the women up to the size of balloons. Fat people who were fat from food eventually lose it if they exercise. But not the hormonal types, the ones who wrecked their hormones with hormonal disrupting drugs, they stay fat even if they exercise. So just ask what's in their medicine cabinet and you'll find the SSRIs/Birth control pills and there you go.



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