Everyone in my family is worried about me because I'm 31, the eldest son and not married nor do I have kids, while my two immediate younger siblings do. I legitimately feel I have nothing to offer a woman. I wish I did but I can't logically think it through in my head where it makes sense. I'm boring, I have an average dick and I have no money. I'm trying not to despair as I believe it is a sin but I can watch women visibly be repulsed at me even as I have other people constantly telling me I'm an attractive guy which has always baffled me but I just thank them because I don't want to be a dick. I mean I even had a cute girl at my job tell me I was good looking and I didn't know what to say except thanks before going back to my job. I feel like a blind man trying to learn how to interpret hieroglyphics. I don't know what I'm supposed to do.
>>34418433Do you feel like this in general? Or only towards potential partners?
>>34418433>having wife/children ONLY because of outside pressurethat's a recipe for hell for both you and your kids and probably your wife, anonif you want kids, that's one thingjust please think it through carefully and don't get fucking peer pressured>muh dickdoesn't matter
>>34418433A woman your age calling you attractive is about as obvious a signal they're interested a woman will ever give. All you had to do was ask with a smirk, and chuckle, "Are you hitting on me?"That is unless you're leaving out a lot of context. I used to be dense too when I was younger, but you sound kind of whiny. Nothing wrong with passing through this life without a wife or children.
>>34418433>I legitimately feel I have nothing to offer a woman. I wish I did but I can't logically think it through in my head where it makes senseSame and Im 34. I have nothing to offer.
>>34418536>A woman your age calling you attractive is about as obvious a signal they're interested a woman will ever giveNTA, but I would've taken it as a signal that she either doesn't like me and is lying to me out of pity, or that she doesn't like me and is trying to manipulate me.
>>34418433A sincere desire to succeed in marriage is all that is asked of you
You're only 31, anon. You have more time than you think.
Sorry just woke up>>34418520If it's a woman I find attractive, then yeah, I don't have a problem communicating with women I have no attraction to.>>34418528>if you want kids, that's one thingI do, I want to marry and have children>>34418536>All you had to do was ask with a smirk, and chuckle, "Are you hitting on me?"I just assumed she was being polite. Whenever I've tried to talk to her before she just kind of shut down.
>>34419649Consider this carefully. Most women that are attracted to a man every thing they can not to reveal such. For instance, they wait until your back is turned or you have passed to check you out, while having avoided eye contact the entire time. Then, depending on the time of the month they could be rubbing their thighs together and look like they're on the verge of orgasm. You have a lot of learning to do. Read, watch, observe. You anons need to branch out. Do many of you are hung up on singular experiences and this only provides a myopic understanding. Broaden your horizons.
