>26>incel>friendless (literally never had any companionship in my life)>unemployed (but study at a uni, 1 year left to graduate)>lonely>broke>neurodivergent/autist(?, not definitely diagnosed) so let's just say socially underdeveloped>any community (online/IRL) I try to participate in turns me into a lolcow (even if I don't do anything)Video games stopped being fun. I have no copes.I am searching for the quintessential activity that I can just grind to cope with my situation.Maybe language learning? Or, to get really good at my STEM major, get MSc and PhD?Learn to code?Man idk.
I have the suspicion that failing tutorial(highschool) makes you friendless and socially stunted for life.dating apps are shit but you can try them.one's view of his social behavior(>i'm fine) is never perfect. you'd need external validation for that.
>>34418553Military/ICE. You'll probably love it honestly. You're not alone btw. Seems common of the modern world, but really of anyone growing up.
Go do some drugs you miserable fuck. By drugs I mean psychedelics.
>>34418553Gym, the upside is you'll feel physically more energized and have more resource to spend, and you'll look betterThe downside is that it's hard to start and to keep upBut yeah if you're at a loss on what to do next, physical exercise and gym specifically is such a good bet. It is a bet that always pays off in many ways. From more compliments, to easier modifiers when dealing with people (think of it like a reputation system), and higher percieved status from others which makes it easier to start conversations, be somebody, and to get a nice interaction. Like a really helpful +4 to charisma if you do it right. So yeah, hope you take it into account. And you don't have to go crazy and go to /fit/ and go all in, the gym is no mystery, you go in there, you have machines, they have very specific ways to use them, you are given a number of sets, a number of repetitions, and then you figure out the weight that you feel comfortable at and don't get exhausted with before you finish the session, and you do that. Often that will be the lowest weight on every machine. Then you know your base, even if it felt useless to do and like it gave you no progress, it actually confirmed to you what you CAN do. And now that you know what you can do, you know that the next step is to increase weight.And then you do them for 1 of 3 muscle groups, or do a full body which means all 3 groups and you'll be less physically capable for the next day or two. Always warm up with walking or cycling. And if you really feel like taking care of yourself, do stretches for 5-10 minutes alongside your warmup. None of this requires a book. It's as easy as just starting to move your body, good luck my friendAnd yes it won't directly get you bitches, but it'll be a HUGE positive turn in your life, and give you excitement for something. So I'm in favor of that
>>34418553>>any community (online/IRL) I try to participate in turns me into a lolcow (even if I don't do anything)that's probably the most concerning thing u wrote, the rest can be fixed
>>34421066this can probably be fixed too, i'm just saying it's the most concerning thing
life is a popularity contest run by hollow faggot sodomites
>>34418553Academic merits/achievements are likely to fix ur employeement and financial problems which is very important so unless you care too much about your social life i wouldnt give a gram of attention to it, besides people that would make your life easier.
>>34418553create or join an american(or whatever country you live in) taliban and destroy the gynocracy that had imparted slut-cuckold ancestry to you.
>>34418553What's your major. I'd suggest trying to work with animals. It can help you get out of your shell. Go to an animal shelter and volunteer. You'll be put on cleanup duty. Cleaning pens and washing food bowls most likely. But they'll give you access to the animals and you'll eventually get more personal responsibilities.
>>34421072how is that concerning? not op btw. just an anon with a very similar situation to op
