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As pathetic as it sounds, I'd be more than happy to be an orbiter, to be just a friend, to be a nice guy. But instead, she rejected me and cut me off.
She must've liked me, because she was the one who started and kept talking to me until the rejection, so why didn't she want to keep me around?
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You're too much of a problem to keep around
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>>34418645
Exsqueeze me?
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werent u the one that cut her off?
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>>34418697
In the end, I did too. After she said no, I tried to talk to her as usual, minus the flirting, but she started crying. (I think this is when she cut me off emotionally.) So I gave her some time and tried to talk to her more casually, but she barely responded, so I gave up.
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>>34418640
Bait thread. Has no relevance to reality
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>>34418784
Thanks for the bump.
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>>34418640
It's better like this than to leave it ambigous.
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>>34418743
If a woman is crying because of you it's the sign she has not cut you off emotionally, are you kidding? If she had no emotions for you she'd not be crying because of you. Were you born on the moon bro? That shit should be obvious. Unless she was crying because you terrified her, then it's a different story
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>>34418932
maybe she thought you were married or just wanted sex when she was more into building a strong friendship or falling in love
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>>34418950
im the chick that cries over dumb maleanons. i literally shout their names from the rooftops trying to get their attention but im sure they would find me boring or to quiet when i first meet people.
not to mention, how storybook is the idea that hitting it off with someone, ending up being best friends a falling in love?
t. would literally leave everything behind if i met the loml
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>>34418905
Unfortunately, I work with her and see her every day. She's sweet when we run into each other, but when I try to talk to her intentionally, she becomes a stone wall. I've started avoiding her like the plague, but it's hard for me to get over it.
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>>34418932
It happened three days after she rejected me, and it was the last time we talked normally, so something has definitely changed there. I was helping her with work at the end of my shift, and I could see she was growing sadder with each minute, until it looked like she was about to cry. I then handed her something she was reaching for and smiled at her. She looked at me, absolutely flabbergasted, looked away, shook her head, left without saying a single word, and only came back after I left.
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Why did this thread die suddenly?
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>>34418965
Never heard loml before, maybe you truly are a girl. Can I get a sniff of your hole? Maybe a little free drip in my mouth? I'm thirsty, thanks.

Meet me on a dating app I'm actually a nice guy I'm just horny af nowadays
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Do I look like a fucking mind reader? Ask her. You may not like the answer you get but its better to hear from her. Also if she doesn't respond just fuck off. Obviously you needed her more than she needs you.
Pic related. Went through something similar. After months of silence I asked why we aren't friends and got this. I was crushed. I tried responding and only made her block my socials. Just ask.
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>>34418788
He didn't bump you, retard
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>>34421232
I don't know, anon, something about asking people why they don't want to be your friends seems really pathetic to me. And I don't think I would get an honest answer either, because we still see each other every day and have to interact from time to time.
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>>34421243
He did. I checked the catalogue, and the thread was in the first spot.
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>>34421286
Its infinitely more pathetic to wander around like a lost puppy not knowing why you were abandoned
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>>34421298
I simply don't think that she, as a normgroid, would be articulate and confrontational enough to give me an honest answer. And unlike you, I didn't do anything stupid that she could use as an excuse either.
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She loves you brother, why would she cry? She is having an emotional overload. If you play your cards well, you can get her. Does she has a boyfriend rn?
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>>34422856
Unfortunately, it happened two months ago, and as I said, she's been doing a good job keeping her distance since then. And yes, she has a long-term boyfriend back in her country. There was nothing to imply she had, and she didn't mention him until the day before the rejection, when I thought it was a slam dunk and was planning to ask her out later that week. The rejection itself was me asking her why she was talking to me like that, and her saying she only saw me as a friend.



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