I'm a closeted lesbian and I deeply hate women. (Mommy issues, awful friendships with girls, dealing with women in general). How can I overcome this? I get where robots/incels are coming from but I still want to fuck women deep down without having to deal with much of anything else regarding them.
>>34420643I see you are trolling outside of >>>/b/ I will have to report this behavior to the moderation team.Sorry, I do not make the rules.
Unfortunate I have to post this, but I'm not trolling. Genuinely asking for help
>>34420643Yea the benefit of testosterone is making men so horny that it paves over all the horrible things about you women
>>34420643I don't even know where to start with this honestly. You should probably see a therapist.
>>34420722Therapy is also ruled by women and just a load of bullshit, I've already tried it and it also contributes to my hatred of women
>>34420760Why don't you try dating a chud? Or do you just have absolutely no sexual attraction to men
>>34420767I get along with men just fine, but romantically/sexually, it's just not there and it's mutual
>>34420781Yeah I really have no idea then, sorry. Yours is the first I've heard of this scenario. From a man's perspective, I guess the only option you really have is to keep trying until you can find a woman with a personality that doesn't drive you crazy or just stop trying altogether snd make peace by yourself. Those are basically the two options we've had for all of human history.
>>34420643Don't fuck "women." Fuck the one woman you fall in love with.
>>34420643transbian?
>>34420665>horrible things about you womenLike what?
>>34420643Do you want a relationship or are you fine with just having sex? If you just want sex you could probably get a whore or something, if you want a relationship well hope for a unicorn or maybe try dating a really feminine guy, if you can stomach it.
What if you date a butch lesbian or ftm who acts like a man
>>34420643When you repress something for long enough it becomes a fetish. If you repress mommy issues as a man for example, you fetishize MILF shit. If you are a girl and you suppressed having a shit female role model and you got fucked over by women, you will fetishize having sex with them. Because the mind really wants what it cannot have. And if it couldn't have love during development from a particular place or person, and you get hurt, and if you suppress that hurt, well OP the pain has to go somewhere. The mind has to process it somehow. So the 'lower' part of your mind takes the job. Your sex drive, your libido. It re-enacts and seeks the dynamic of wanting love from a female role model (platonic love) and then twists into a hypersexual fetish where you will feel you want to fuck them.If you're wondering yes, lesbianism isn't an orientation. It's just a fetish. You're just a woman with a fetish, and that's all. But modern world decided to make it an entire identity for bullshit reasons
>>34420643Also consider this: It's not just about fetishism for the female form you will notice. You will notice the fantasy women you would fuck and are attracted to will reflect the type of women who fucked you over. Take for example the pic in your OP of who I presume you find to be fuckable. If we take off the cum-tinted glasses for a second, we can observe the girl in your OP image is an antisocial narcissistic bitch. Obsessed with herself, doesn't care for other people's boundaries, and she is extremely shallow and most likely not very smart. How can we know this? It's just an image surely it's not that deep? Look at where she is. In public, where anyone could be strolling past, including young children. And she more or less has her tits out. But she doesn't care. (Antisocial behaviour).And the narcissism, look what she does in public, taking a bullshit selfie. Selfies can be normal but hers has no context no celebration or meaning occurring, it's just about her. All about her. And we can see she is dumb because she is taking the selfie.. while someone took the photo, the one you look at. ??? Taking a pic of herself taking a pic. All of this to say: She is a bitch. And you most likely got fucked over by a bitch or a pack of bitches. Girls with similar personality traits to that bitch in the picture.
>>34420643this is maybe crazy and incredibly niche but i made a night elf male druid in WoW who is a total mlady for women and a misandrist and roleplayed that for a while and it legitimately helped. but also talking to my LMFT (who is a man). turns out dealing with the mommy issues helped all my relationships.
>>34422391>>34422362>>34420643So you want to overcome this shit? Just keep in the front of your mind exactly how you became like that. And don't cop out with the cheap answer of "lesbian". Don't identify with that garbage. I am not asking you to identify as straight either, or bisexual, or pansexual, or asexual or whatever the fuck these identity junkies yap about. Forget all that shit and just identify as a human first, a female one and that's all, don't add anything else onto that. And then just accept you fit a fetish for the female form. Not the female character or personality. (You admit you don't even want to go near a woman's personality, you don't want to connect with her deeply). Just her body. Think about that, it's just about the body. It's a fetish, femanon.The more you get that truth into your skull, the less you will care about fucking women. Especially if you can find a good female role model somewhere, a non sexual connection to one, a woman who will have love for you, platonic love, a sort of motherly love where she sees the good in you and tells you about it. Then your "lesbianism" will magically melt away as if it never mattered. Because it really does not matter
>>34420643We'll need to know what you specifically dislike about women and where it comes from to tailor the advice for you.What about women bothers you?How does this affect your relationship with them?What trauma are you talking about? What did you experience?>>34420760>Therapy is also ruled by womenUnfortunately true. Their influence on the practice cannot be denied. You will likely have to look for a bit till you find one that is actually helpful. Have you considered a male therapist?
>>34422456Therapy is shit because let's face it, we're paying $100 an hour for someone to pretend to give a fuck. The therapist will care, but they only care to get their job done correctly so they can feel like they are worth that $100 an hour. That's what their clients are to them, a job. Work. And deep down, who the fuck wants to be seen as "work" by someone else? It's an absolute insult. Doesn't matter if the shrink feels proud of their work or feels happy with it, it still treats the client as their subject, their work subject. They even classify humans as "subjects" in their gay little psychological data files for cases. It's totally dehumanizing at worst, patronizing as shit at best. Everyone who goes to a therapist is just looking for someone to understand, for someone to actually care, truly care. And these quack bastards know this and they profit out of it.And they don't give you that someone to care. The therapist ain't gonna be attending your funeral or your wedding or the baptism of your kid. The therapist is gone along with your money. It isn't just the fact the practice is now feminized, it's that for the entire show, the practice has been a colossal joke. It's always been a joke, it's why every decade there's fuck up after fuck up with it. It wasn't long ago they used to put humans in straight jackets and muzzles in padded cells. That was "Psychology" back then. Just a few generations ago.
>>34422432>>34422391>>34422362retarded
>>34420643I have a similar problem. Honestly I just focus on writing and work. I went to therapy and tried to get help for the ptsd I got from dealing with terrible girls when I was in elementary and middle school. It helped a little but I still can't really make friends with other girls especially ones my age.
>>34420652Wait, adv has mods...
