Not in a closet gay sense, I'm just also trying to like them as people. I'm fairly attractive, have dated girls, and I have female friends, so it's not an incel thing, but man am I having a hard time liking them for who they are. Which sucks, I do want to get married and have kids at some point. Any advice?
>>34422899see them as human beings that are smaller and weaker than you and have adapted to this constant state of danger
>>34422906I know smaller men. I've worked with children. I've worked with disabled people. I've worked as a tutor. I've worked with less talented people. I've worked in a lot of cases where I interacted with less able and vulnerable people, but none of them ever pissed me off. Women have. But thanks either way
Try to come from a place of understanding that if you were given everything you ever wanted just for existing and told that you could never do any wrong you would probably grow up to be insufferable too
>>34422929I grew up with wealthy parents, and to this day I'm worried that something I could do could hurt someone by making it look like I'm showing off my parents' money. I don't see that innate empathy for less fortunate people in them, everything is so performative for them.
>>34422913>I know smaller men. I've worked with children. I've worked with disabled people. I've worked as a tutor. I've worked with less talented people. I've worked in a lot of cases where I interacted with less able and vulnerable peopleAny of those important enough for you to adopt as family?
>>34422981Neither are the women I consider obnoxious, I have more conditions for marriage material other than a good personality. Good point tho
