im 18, i know ima retard myself but holy shit my family cant see past their own 2 feet sometimes. i (try to) split chores with my cousin but my moms got this thing where idk if shes retarded or just biased but she never gives me any credit and when we argue my cousin gets all her golden stars.i tried to tell my mom and cousin that id take over the dogs. my cousin would wake up at like 1pm for their morning piss and let them out once more at like 8 or 9, leading to one of them (we have 3) whining and crate pissing at night (my mom thinks its just some "underlying" autistic abnormality). i wanted to fix my sleep schedule anyway. i told them if i take over the dogs they cant feed their attention seeking behavior with attention, ever. and i ended up getting into an unnecessarily heated argument with them both. my retard mom took her chance and burst into my room while my niece was over and starts a huge fight.now my cousin and mom are being lesbian about me not helping around the house meanwhile the dogs are outside 4 hours at a time, barking, and the one pissing his crate stays out all night.everyone including the dogs think im the bikini bottom man ray and want to get in the way when i just dont feel like seeing them suffer from a lack of structure.theres more details underneath the surface if u couldnt alr tell but isnt their chain of reasoning clearly poisoned with stupid????am i in the wrong??????tl;dr: my families retarded and will not tolerate constructive criticism.
>>34423388move outfind a decent job & live on your own, it won't be nearly as much headache as this bullshitdon't bother confronting your family or anything for now, just move out
>>34423388People who crate dogs are terrible, full stop. How is it different from keeping an inmate prisoner in your home? Let the fucking dog out of the cage and let it walk, dogs aren't meant to lay in a locked cage all day and night. If they are large, they will all develop early hip and joint issues. Little dogs are retarded and would like it, big dogs don't deserve a cage.>>34423410I agree with this person, but take the dogs when you move
>>34423427my mom has a history of obtaining animals and neglecting them past the basic food, water, and shelter. she did the same to me and now that im 18 shes unmasking while holding her mom title proudly. she cant have a conversation with me, shes shown zero interest in my whole life, just imagine her dogs.. actually, dont.im kinda venting at this point but after me and moms fight i chose not to attend easter cuz my family loves reading the room and they know i wouldnt bust a grape on a family occasion so i chose to just not go.my cousin tried to text me "i let the dogs out this morning" as if that was part of the deal, like she didnt cuck me when i tried to help her. i told her "we all have to be on the same page and im not doing it if everyones going to be retarded" she was all "ok wtv anon" and i was like "yea" now shes giving me the silent treatment and siding with my mom while the dogs deteriorate in their crates.we have 2 rottweilers and one of those ugly pug looking dogs, both rotts have bite history. i let them out all at once today (family wasnt home, their petrified to) and the rotts are just gross and horny while the little dude just hovered around but as soon as i put them up they immediately started mad dogging me, its actual fucking cancer>>34423410thank u guys. yall r so right. i apologized to my mom for my recent blow ups last night and i expected her to like voice her concerns or needs but she didnt... she just accepted my apology, and thats cool and all but like idk shes just braindead idfk. not sure if i didnt mean my apology or if i take it back or wut, idk if i can even take it back at this point. its like everything ive been trying to tell her just went straight into the void.
