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I was at a meetup party on Wednesday , where random people get to know each other, talk, make friendships, or more etc.
I was sitting at a table with some girls and we exchanged Facebook profiles and marked each other as friends. I talked with a girl a little bit more and it turned out she works near my workplace. She suggested that we might meet during the weekdays.
She is a very new Facebook user, just created her profile a few months ago.
On Saturday I wrote her a message: " Hi, Anon! The meetup party on Wednesday was great—we had such a nice chat. Since it turns out our workplaces are so close, would you be up for a casual lunch sometime next week during work hours? "
It is Sunday and she did not read it. She barely visits Facebook according to the activity status.
I have no other contact to her just Facebook messages.
How to handle this anons? Don't want to be needy, but some sort of clever pushing is needed here.
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>>34427382
>On Saturday I wrote her a message
Why does the message read as if it were written by a clanker?
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>>34427557
it was translated from Hungarian with Deepl. It sounds good in my native language.
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>>34427382
You did fine. Now you just sit and wait. If you don't hear in a week, give up
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You can't force someone to reply, you just have to wait and see for yourself
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Thanks anons. The wait is killing me. Still no reply. On Tuesday evening I will write a friendly reminder, maybe she forgot to check. But after that I have to give up.
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>>34427382
>meetup party
?? Like for old people or do Hungarian zoomers actually go out specifically to meet eachother?
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>>34430313
>On Tuesday evening I will write a friendly reminder, maybe she forgot to check.
DO NOT DO THIS. If she forgets to check, then she wasn't thinking about you. If she isn't even thinking about you enough to keep her word and go out with you, then she isn't worth your time
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>>34430320
Mostly for millennials. You go to a meetup. Pick a number and sit with random people of 4 and start chatting about anything you want. And you rotate every half an hour. After 4-5 rounds it is over and you can go home or stay and do whatever.
You have chance to meet new people, maybe start a relationship, etc. It is brutally difficult to meet new people and get new friends. And everybody in this meetup is in the same situation as me.

>>34430324
that is true, but she accepted my friend request though Ignoring messages is rude as fuck.



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