>be me>senior in college about to graduate>decide to fix life so I can finally get a gf>hit the gym sophomore year, get in solid shape>fix hygiene completely, teeth, skin, cologne, all that>ditch glasses for contacts, better haircut>redo wardrobe so I actually look clean and put together>force myself to be social>bars, clubs, campus events, group stuff>talk to people almost every day, not awkward anymore>people say I’m like a 7.5 - 8... so not ugly>still can’t get a gf>talk to girls, seems fine at first>then nothing happens or they lose interest>dating apps same story>did everything people say to dostill stuckwhat am I doing wrong?
>>34429524>people say I’m like a 7.5 - 8... so not uglyThey are being kind, specially when you ask them.
>>34429524nothing, dating sucks for guys unless you are a rich chad
>>34429524Sure, I'll help. You think being tall, having money and looking ripped is a requisite for women to like you. You then create your own set of requisites you expect women to have in order to give them your time and attention. Since neither of you are perfect, you never give each other the light of day. You now lose years of your life trying to figure it out and in most cases, you get too old to rectify the mistake.
>>34429524it's hard to saychances are it's something you didn't write in your OP which you didn't think to look for, otherwise you'd have fixed itkinda like trying to bugfix, you're looking for a mistake YOU MADE so how are you supposed to find it
>>34429588t. ugly had telling men to lower their standardsi see hot girls with ugly niggersif they can do it, why shouldnt i, simple as
>>34429596I actually sat and thought about your comment for a minute, and yeah, that’s fair. I probably left out details that matter, so I’ll try to be more specific about myself.Starting with the downsides: I’ve got a pretty big forehead, but I’m not receding, so I can style my hair (side part or Ivy League) in a way that mostly balances it out. My face isn’t perfectly symmetrical either, my right cheek is slightly bigger than my left. I’ve had it looked at before and was basically told that they have no idea why.My nose isn’t perfectly straight either, it’s more of a Roman/French shape. Not terrible, but not the ideal “perfect” nose either. Also, a lot of people say I come off as intimidating at first, and I’ve got a bit of a resting pissed-off face. That’s kind of just how the men in my family look.As for the positives: I’m 6'1”, so I’ve got height going for me. A lot of people, guys and girls, have complimented my eyes, eyebrows, and lips. I’m in good shape too, not a bodybuilder, but solid muscle and not overweight.Personality-wise, I’m social and can hold conversations easily. I joke around a lot and can make people laugh without much effort. A big part of that is I tend to turn my own problems into humor, I’ve dealt with some depression, and I guess that’s made me quicker on my feet when it comes to jokes. I can usually come up with something on the fly and keep conversations light or entertaining without trying too hard.So yeah, that’s a more complete picture. I’m not perfect, but I don’t think I’m doing terribly either, which is why I feel kind of stuck. You can ask me more details if I missed anything.
>>34429524Maybe it's your breath.Seriously, 99% of what you list is purely external. Who is the guy inside all that flashy new packaging? Is he attractive, intelligent, warm, interesting?
>>34429524>what am I doing wrong?You lack confidence. Learn how to fake it.
>>34429532fpbp>>34429533spsbpChad doesn't have to try at all
>>34429524When a man is born, God flips a coinYou landed on the chudcel side, so that's all you are and will ever beThe good news is that it's better to be a chudcel in shape and with a social life than sniveling in your own squalor, so it was still worth the effort.
just read the mystery method or any prominent pickup artist book written before 2015
>>34429524>decide to fix life so I can finally get a gf
>>34429609Black bonus, your tiny white pecker will NEVER satisfy Stacy Fox’s tight white cunt
Never skip genetics day
>>34430790God doesn't flip coins.Chud by design
Your post says very little to nothing about your interactions with women. The closest you get is "seems fine at first then nothing happens."You are most likely playing it extremely safe with girls. If nothing happens or they get bored it's because ... you're not doing anything. You're just having some conversation with them expecting it to end with a date.You need to actually make a move. A girl should not "lose interest" in you when you're talking to her. She should either get into you or reject you completely. So in other words, don't be a bitch. Make a move on her. Don't know how? Express yourself more. Say something risky. Tell her she's hot. Don't beat around the bush.
>>34432764It makes sense but your advice is just "say something" that doesn't narrow it down much at all. Like yeah take a risk or say she's hot, but there's also another 99% of that conversation to have.
