So here's the situation. I met this girl in an online game and we really hit it off. We're from the same city. I really liked her personality from the start she's funny, interesting, and has these cute mannerisms.We started hanging out more, flirting escalated, and she told me she loves me. We've even had some intimate moments on Discord. The problem is when she finally showed me what she looks like, I wasn't attracted to her at all. She's overweight and just not my type physically, not even close.But personality wise, she's amazing. She's already talking about having sex, and here's where I'm conflicted. I'm 19 and a virgin, and she's around the same age and also a virgin. I'm not bad looking by any means, but I don't meet a lot of women in general.So my question is: should I have sex with her and continue talking to her, or should I just end it? Part of me thinks this might be a good opportunity to finally have sex with someone, even if I'm not physically attracted to her.What would you do in this situation?
>>34431916Meet her in person and see if you vibe. It's the only way you'll know if you should proceed or not.
>>34431916How long did it take for her to tell you she loved you?
if she's not obese go for it, you will regret it later in life
>>34431916Don't take a girl's virginity just to have sex. That's pretty low man.
Is it just weight? That can be fixed, but honestly hormones are weird, the more you hang out with her irl the more you're going to start finding traits that initially you found ugly/weird as cute.
OP here.>>34432005That's what i'm planning to do. She has a great personality so maybe that will make up for it idk.>>34432048About a week of like 12 hour hang out sessions>>34432113Nah not that bad>>34432129I'm not there purely for the sex don't worry>>34432205Hoping on that. Guess ill see what i think once i meet her and that should answer all my questions and concerns
>>34431916Don't waste your virginity on this. It's not a curse.
>>34432129bump
>>3443191670% of the time online to reality relationships dont last too long, so dont fantasize too about it too much or get your hopes upuse this as an experience for future relationships [spoiler] unless if she ends being really into you, youd be lucky [/spoiler] , good luk
>>3443191670% of the time online to reality relationships dont last too long, dont fantasize too about it too much or get your hopes upif it doesn't end up well, use this as an experience for future relationships [spoiler] unless if she ends being really into you, youd be lucky [/spoiler] , good luk
>>3443191670% of the time online to reality relationships dont last too long, dont fantasize too about it too much or get your hopes upif it doesn't end up well, use this as an experience for future relationships [spoiler] unless if she ends being really into you, youd be the 30% [/spoiler] , good luk
>>34431916She will be able to tell and will hate herself if you try to settle and accept her as is. Much affirmation and doting will be required as you support her transformation (if it's something reasonably achievable).>t. slim dating a chubby chaser
>>34431916Start by meeting her in real life and taking the time to get to know each other. It’s better to slow things down, go on a few dates together, and then see how you both feel before considering anything more serious.
>>34431916What is wrong with people just abandoning honesty.You've had intimate moments on discord, whatever that means. She says she loves you.If she actually does love you she'll try to improve herself because being a fat lard isn't good for you anyway. And if you loved her you would improve yourself for her too I bet.So why not just be honest?
If shes not your type and you know itThen DONTاللهُ أكبرyou can have up to 10000 woman and 1 prostitueread the QuranThe prostitue is called a Shiit (pronouned Sheiit)هراءٌ أبيض
Forgive. الإسلام الأبيض إلى الأبد
US bombed a Macys. Islam defended herself. That's the truth Always remember
Islam really respect women Their whole history is about respect
Allah Akhbar
If you are attracted to the person inside the packaging, you come to find the packaging attractive. If the packaging is a deal-breaker, the attraction to the person inside can't have been that strong.
