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I'm 32 and never had a woman friend in my entire life, no gf, but I mean not even just friends either. Is there any way to change this or should I just accept that thats never going to happen.
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>>34431977
The reason it never happened is because you already accepted that's never going to happen. You already considered yourself defeated so you remained in defeat.
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You don't have to prove anything to anyone OP.
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Pfft. Best friends you can have are Benjamin Franklins. Now go out there are and make lots of friends.
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>>34431977
this starts in childhood, didn't you talk to your mom, aunts, cousins, sisters etc?
women are no different than men, in so far as they are also human
have you talked with a foreigner that has grown up in your country?
so you two have a lot of experiences in common but also a lot of things particular to each, specially in their private lives
well it's the same
I mean it's good that you ask about female friendship before a relationship because I wouldn't advice you to jump straight into a relationship if you've never even had a female friend before.
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>>34432658
I've never been close to my mom and I've never had any female relatives. There really hasn't been any women in my life at all. Not sure how to have any women friends. Sometimes I will have some online male friends, but its never happened with a woman.
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>>34432758
I get you in a way, but this only happened now that I am old. Growing up I did have female friends somehow, although nowadays I have none.

It can happen, you can meet someone on your work or online or anywhere really, there's nothing stopping it really.
That being said, I suppose what you gotta do is to just try and take it easy. Like the other anon >>34432658 said, they are not so different deep down, we're all just human at the end of the day.

Being calm and polite and take things easy (though it's easier said than done, at least for me).



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