There was this cute girl that started working at my old retail job. I knew the moment I saw her I wanted her. I think she could tell. But I think a some point I started bothering her a bit because I would chat her up too much lol. Anyways, I tried asking for her Instagram but she said she doesnt use it much then I just started leaving her alone after that. I assumed at the time she rejected me but I think she mightve been serious. I looked up her name again and I found two accounts. One was made recently and another really old one (probably her main). I wasnt able to find both accounts last time but now I could (and they were literally the first choices too) so I wonder if she searched me?She still works at my old workplace. Its a department store. She doesnt seem to dislike me. I chatted her up at a register and she was smiling while talking to me (i could literally see her gums lol). we go to the same college but i cant find her anywhere. this is the only place I can. should i just ask her if she wants to hang out? or maybe just add her on instagram? she has her account privated but we have 1 mutual
Try to take a step—for example, cook a meal yourself and invite her to dinner in a garden after her work hours. Tell her that you prepared it with your own hands, and try to be kind to her. Talk to her about anything, like university.
>>34432872anon, if she was interested, she would give you any other media so u could contact her. and she probably smiles like that at everyone just to be polite. if u ask her out, she will either straight up say no use some retarded excuse. the best chance u have is probably by ignoring her completely and act distant
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>>34433289this girl is a bit goofy. she was having a convo with a guy once and she mentioned liking an artist with some known scandals and he called her racist as a joke. but instead of laughing she took him seriously and got offended. she was also going through something at one point and was found crying in a corner by a coworker. when she first came in she seemed pretty shy and introverted. i noticed after i asked her out she would stare at me from afar but not actually talk to me. the last time i talked to her she seemed pretty chipper so maybe she gained some confidence.either way, the point is that I want her and i AM going to ask her out just not sure what the best way is that isnt weird
>>34433455again, i dont think its going to work out for you, however i would maybe just ask her to go somewhere with you after shift, but without making it look too serious or like an "official hangout". for example you wanna get groceries, u find a reason to go the same way she goes etc. i highly recommend to not making it look like youre interested
