I've been unemployed most of my youth, but due to some friends having knowledge in the industry I've been interested in my whole life I not only have a job but an actual ability to institute my own personal project and as long as I get it done by fall everything will go well. With everything going so well I thought I'd be motivated as ever but now all I've been thinking about is being with a woman. I thought it was just an extremely high libido because I've also been going to the gym but no porn satiates me not even for a moment. I have an intense desire to share this experience with someone who has a desire to see me successful and whose existence will hold me accountable.
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>>34438528How do I stop thinking about women so I can focus on my job?
>>34438534NTA but I'm not sure what advice you're looking for. Start going on dates, talk to women. Everything you're experiencing is entirely natural.
>>34438534by having strong self-discipline, strong will/mind, exact and concrete/defined goals set in mind. what do you want? success or a quick fuck?where there is a will, there is a way. also this sounds like a skill issue somewhat. it is a limiting belief by (you) that you cant think about women AND still focus on your job and be/keep it professional. why not both aka multi tasking, no?i had a literal model at my internship once. a true 10/10 european brunette.i admired her for 5 minutes, gossiped and joked a lil with my female collegues (one short stacked iranian cutie who would put her titties on the table when typing @pc) how my heart skips a beat and how i like her and then i continued my work unchanged.you should always keep work seperated from any and everything else. keep it professional. also dont eat where you shit. dont date collegues at your workplace.
>>34438555I'm set on my work goals and honestly most women seem uninteresting to me. Women are disappointingly not romantic and if they aren't good with business I just don't really see much of a point of talking to them. I've had some friends set me up but I've never felt really attached to them.>>34438572>it is a limiting belief by (you) that you cant think about women AND still focus on your job and be/keep it professional.It probably is a skill issue, I can't see a connective tissue between women and my work so I don't see the point. Again unless I meet a business savvy woman but I am not rich enough to pull one and honestly I can only deal with maternal older women and not girlboss types.
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>>34438534Some things you just have to brute force. Men are programmed to expect reward for success, with sex being the most primal reward. When I was flipping shitcoins on /biz/, every time I had a good market day I immediately got a raging erection. When I got a real job I began to feel sad-horny every time I finished a great work week and got home to an empty condo. Eventually you will become desensitized.
>>34441761I'll be doing another day of brute forcing it for the time being. I am just annoyed at how much I could think about my passion before I actually am able to do it and get money off of it. Now I can't even think about it except when forced and spend most of my days wishing for a wife.
>>34438534Just... like... stop??? DuhWhat are you? Retarded?
>>34441839Lad seriously just shut the fuck up and get back to work>omg I feel so WORTHY now! BOY I feel like I could have a WIFE now! I want a wifey so bad bros i'm literally gonna go insane! OH! what ever shall I do? Get back to work? NO! I'm functional farm equipment someone PLEASE be my WIFE UWU XDShut up you silly faggot
>>34443489I do physical labor, but my dream job requires me to think. It's hard for me to think when I'm only thinking about women. That's why I'm seeking help.