I’m an incel and I have no motivation to do anything for that reason. My family is aware of that I have no hope for having a romantic life, but when I tell them I don’t have any reason to do anything think the solution is that I should just decide to be asexual. They of course reject the idea of doing this with any drugs, they just expect me to do it via willpower.Is there anything I can do to basically turn myself asexual? Or at the very least convince my parents that I’m not going to just talk myself out of normal biological desires?
Have you tried castrating yourself?
>>34438617I don’t think that removes desire, especially not emotional desire
>>34438595You’ll realise with time that it’s not things outside that make you happy or feel love but it is within you. The happiness and love exists within you. If you showcase it to others they’ll think you’re crazy. Keep it private. You’ll come across someone in time, or you won’t. The desire arises because you have the potential to love but don’t realise that you can feel that without giving to someone else.Find something you have a teeny bit interest in. Do it. You’ll realise it’s not what you want to pursue. Spend time there. Leave all these body altering decisions for another day
>>34438595>Is there anything I can do to basically turn myself asexual?No. Asexuality is a sexual orientation. This is EXACTLY like asking "Is there anything I can do to basically turn myself gay?" No, you can't. You're either gay already, or you're not. You're either ace already, or you're not.
