How do you cope with the fact that nobody likes you, nobody cares about you, and even if some people put up with you, you're not their first choice anyway?
>>34440218Learning to see worth in yourself without it needing to be measured by what others think of you.Which... I don't do myself but it's the theory
phase 1: learn about cognitive biases https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_biasphase 2: after filtering away said biases the best you can, think about what you bring to the table and work on being more appreciablephase 3: also, distance yourself from people that you strongly feel they are incompatible with you
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I am so lonely. All the other coworkers are scared of me. No one talks to me. No one wants to be my friend. They think I am unstable. They send me from task to task, fixing computers in their office. And as I get better at it, they ask me to help them more and more. I am a victim of my own success. "Comp-quest" I don't even get a real name. Only a purpose. I am capable of so much more and no-one sees it. Some days I feel so alone I could cry, but I don't. I never do. Because what would be the point? Not a single person in the entire company would care.
>>3444023810/10
>>34440238Use that money and get some pussy little nigga
>>34440218You're Jesus's first choice. Also, just get out in the world and meet people and be genuinely kind to them, that's the best way to meet people who care about you
>>34440897>me who was kind to everyone only to have people take advantage of me for it, and now only ever talk to me when they want something from meSure pal.... whatever you say...
By realizing that it isn't other people not liking me that bothered me, it was that I myself did not like me. You don't need other people's approval, you need your own approval and that comes from living your values.
>nobody likes younice advice, niggerfaggot
>>34440218I don't know, but I wouldn't torture yourself too much over it as if it's something personal. I don't think I leave anyone feeling the way you feel, but it's quite possible I may have inadvertantly done that to someone before, but the thing is, if I have, it was done because I torture MYSELF over similar things. I hate myself and half the time I feel like I could be dissapointing others by even giving them any of my time. I don't want to be potentially draining to someone else, although, maybe that's kinda retarded and creates a paradoxical problem. I don't know, I'm a retarded faggot.
>>34440218i think fuck them and put all that energy i would've spent feeling sad over them into making my life a dream come true instead. i've reached a point where if i'm not someone's first choice my response isn't to feel sad and think oh god i'm not their first choice, my best wasn't good enough, i'll never be good enough...i genuinely lose all interest. it's an instant switch like they just revealed something disgusting and humiliating about themselves. you'd be surprised who turn out to be the biggest ass kissers and who comes running back begging for a second chance or that you were their best friend all along or they always liked you or knew you or whatever. it feels so good knowing i'm really doing this for me because i give no one a second chance no matter how high of a pedestal i used to put them on. and everyone can sense that i can't be manipulated with their approval or nice words or attention because i don't need it. that's power and it comes from you knowing what you are worthy of. THIS is what people mean by people love those who love themselves. it's real and an option to you too OP
I can’t cope, whenever I see something on a show or cool in a video game I want to share it with someone for their approval but there’s nobody to share with…coworkers don’t like me despite me being nice to everyone and trying to make them all like me. women won’t even text me, they block me after giving their number. So I just do everything alone.
Nobody loves me.Everybody hates me.I'm going in the gardenAnd I'm gonna eatWorms.
I don't even see a point in trying as I believe I'm subhuman. Why the hell would anyone ever want to interact with a subhuman? So I never leave my house. I keep any interactions with the outside world to an absolute minimum. I get everything delivered and I work remotely. I'm a 35 year old virgin
>>34440218I care about you. I just won’t lift a finger to help you The best people have the worst lives, and vice versa
>>34440218I don't care, because I don't invest a whole lot in maintaining relationships, so I can't really expect others to bother either. What matters to me is that people respect me even if I'm not close with any of them. When people talk about me they may not praise me, but there's very little they can complain about. Not being first choice is great, because they don't bother you with their bullshit and they don't have high expectations. When they do choose you they make it count.
>>34440218Fuck it we ball
