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>37
>NEET for basically entire life
>no high school or college education
>dropped out of school in 8th grade
>never worked
>have left house maybe 3 times in past 15 years
>0 social skills
>Morbidly obese
>never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s
>5'2"
>never had a job
>can't drive
>never had friends
>parents are broke so I won't inherit anything
>no skills
>never exercised in my entire life
>have had probably fewer than 10 irl interactions within the past 20 years
How do I get out of this? I've literally just played video games since dropping out of high school when I was 13. my parents' money is running out.
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>>34440386
>>37
cool
>>NEET for basically entire life
based
>>no high school or college education
turbo based
>>dropped out of school in 8th grade
mega based
>>never worked
based beyond blief
>>have left house maybe 3 times in past 15 years
unfathomably based
>>0 social skills
doesn't matter
>>Morbidly obese
still based
>>never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s
überbased
>>5'2"
charles manson height
>>never had a job
still gigabased
>>can't drive
that kinda sucks but you do you
>>never had friends
chukobased
>>parents are broke so I won't inherit anything
based
>>no skills
multibased
>>never exercised in my entire life
hyperbased
>>have had probably fewer than 10 irl interactions within the past 20 years
ludicrously based

yeah im thinking ull be fine.
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>>34440386
The good news is that you've got a list of shit you don't like about yourself already written out.
I recommend making a plan to address each point and begin executing those plans, starting with your morbid obesity (as this directly affects your health and mood).
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https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/search/text/Neet%20entire%20life/
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>>34440386
Dude accept it , it is over . i am 29 on the same boat but have a usless degree that worth a toilet paper.
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>still earnestly replying to the daily automated spam
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>>34440386
Resolve some of the issues on the list:
Work out
>Apply for a job, any job, turn in a resume that says you subtitled tv shows fir the last 10 years
Sign up for drivers ed
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>>34440386
Hope? You're living the dream, man. Keep on doing what you're doing.
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All the op talking to himself fyi^^
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>>34440386
Serious question, why? Why are you choosing to live like this?
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>>34441018
not him but i'm in the same situation at 35. I can't get out of it, i don't know which side of the problem tackle first, fear, anxiety, etc. Also by living a life of pure escapism and avoidance i often forget about the real world and my situation for a huge amount of time and when i go back to reality it got worse. I don't really have control of myself
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34440763
I am 29 and I didn't waste money going to college.
Life is honestly pretty fucking great. Just gotta be patient for the best stuff to happen.

My only regret is not eating ramen sooner. Shit's better than I thought.
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the easiest shit would be to stop being fat and stop using the computer all together
just walk around the block or whatever for 20 minutes everyday
then the next week do it for 45 min
then start jogging for like 5 min with 30 min of walking
increase this until you can run a couple miles a day
lift weights 20 minutes a day
doesn't matter how strong or fast you are, the feeling of getting fitter becomes addictive so you start gaining fitness without forcing yourself

throw out your computer
the internet is poison
video games is poison
find a place to volunteer 1 day a week, like find a church or community thingy and explain your situation...doesn't matter
get a job part time at mcdonalds or something just to get exposure to people
but don't eat the food
degrees are pretty worthless, only like 5% of people with them make use of them, college is a gigantic scam for 95% of people

you can become a plumber or something
get rid of the computer and stop using the internet
its absolute mental poison

i didn't know how to do anything until i was 36
saved up enough money to buy a welder
taught myself how to do that then got a job
taught myself how to do CAD/CAM, machining, woodwork
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what is the source of your mysterious income that you use to buy food water and electricity?
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farming csgo skins
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>>34440386
I mean, are you really alive?
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>>34440386
What do you get out of ritual posting? Really please answer.
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>Morbidly obese
>never exercised in my entire life
Easiest thing to fix
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>>34440386
It's over
Look, even if you make a start today, what age will you be when you become someone you can respect? You'll be in your late 40s by then IF you make a huge effort. Realistically, you'll be in your 50's

I'm 29, diagnosed autist, NEET for my whole life, I got pulled out of school at age 12. I've only ever done work in my garden and in the surrounding fields, cutting up, hauling and splitting wood, and gardening. I don't get paid, it is to save money mostly. I've never really had friends. I have trained in boxing and lifted and gotten fit when I was 18-20 and then got depressed for most of my 20's and just stopped everything. I'm also a manlet (5'4"). I've never had a driver's licence either. I am doing a bit better than you, but that isn't saying much. It's over for me, because I know I won't do shit. I can't do shit. I will be your age before I know it regretting not doing anything about it. But I just don't know what to do, because things are complicated and difficult for me. And that's that. I've already wasted my 20's, and there's no getting that back

The best thing us useless NEETs can do is just find fulfilling hobbies and indulge in them. Maybe some day we can make a living out of those hobbies, but probably not. it doesn't matter. Cut your loses, reconcile. Let go. Forget about it. Just enjoy what you can and keep yourself fit and healthy is my best advice. If you don't have your health, you might as well have nothing. I've started working out again and im trying to make it routine. Life is much easier and feels much better when you are fit

If you really do want to try and change, it is your lifestyle you need to change. Your habits. You have to make new habits, new routines and rituals. Don't worry about doing it, just simply do it. But you wont. And you know that
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>still talking to himself



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