>date a girl>grope her, while watching a tv show and seeing the characters on screen act sexual>she tenses up and stammers she doesn't want to do "it" so soon>that's fine, I am not going any further than this today>she relaxes a bit and I just cuddle with her instead, while having a boner>few weeks later>we have sex for the first time>she is very nervous>come in a few minutes>notice something is bothering her about this>say it was good for me though and I am going to fuck her again later>she suddenly relaxes, her anxiety is gone and she seems to orgasm much more easily the next times we did itIs that the secret? Just ignore whether a woman has a good time and just do what you want to them? I thought for sure she would call me an asshole and leave instead.
Rapist. God damned u. Ur going to hell for coercive sex.
>>34442072No you dumbass, she got relaxed and enjoyed your sex because when she told you 'no' the first time, you were a gentleman and respected her boundaries. This made her feel safe and now she trusts you with her body. Well done from me, bud. You also told her it was good for you. And that makes her feel even more secure with you because you confirmed to her that she pleases you. And she knows if a man is pleased with her, he stays with her. It's basic attraction dynamic. You didn't know any of this presumably but fortunately for you, you accidentally passed the test with flying colors. Enjoy the relationship bro and remember don't fuck this up if she is a keeper. Put a ring on her soon.
>>34442075I am not a rapist!>>34442086thanks, but what now?
>>34445612What now is keep enjoying hanging out with her bro. Every weekend or two or at least once a month, show her a good time, at the movies or a park or talk about fun locations nearby that she might wanna go check out. Could be a market could be a museum or exhibition could be anything. Then just talk about life and shit or each others hopes and dreams or yknow, personal shit. And hang out and kiss more hug more, treat her like a friend as well as a girlfriend at the same time yknow what I mean? Don't worry about much else, do that for a couple years like 2-3 years and then see how you feel about buying a diamond ring for her and asking her to be your wife. Focus on that shit later though, for now just have fun together or have peace together, or both whichever you want bro. Congratulations from me, btw. You aced that shit
>>34442072>and I am going to fuck her again laterThat's the key. She was worried about you leaving her, abandoning.
>>34445628>That's the key.I know right? OP pulled out a banger with that. If this is his first try at this sort of thing and he nailed it first try then that's huge
>>34442072>Just ignore whether a woman has a good time and just do what you want to them?Yes, that is the secret. I puts off alpha male vibes. Chicks (probably in this thread even) will tell you oh no you should make her the center of attention or other simp shit.But in their primal brain, they love it when a man takes charge and has his way with them.
Did you just make this post to announce to 4channers that you have sex
