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I have feelings for my female friend who is in a relationship. I made peace with the fact that she's taken and for the past two months I actually stopped thinking about her in that way, talked to other girls and could picture myself getting involved with someone else. However lately she has been having issues with her boyfriend and it's getting really bad. This has created the possibility that she might become single and all of the feelings I had two months ago have been returning. I don't know what to do really, I don't want to get involved in their relationship drama and I'm not even sure whether I would want them to break up or not. If they break up what am I supposed to do? I guess it wouldn't be a good idea to make some move right after she's broken up. And it could ruin our friendship. And I also realize she might never see me in that way even if she becomes single.
And also, how am I supposed to react when she tells me about issues with her boyfriend? Few days ago she was really angry with him and started talking about it in front of me and I didn't really know what to say.
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Stay away from her when she's still in the relationship and ask to date her once she's out
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>>34443013
>wait until [a modern young woman] is alone and available
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO
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>>34443005
He's having problems with her because you're the problem. You are orbiting her and this is causing their relationship stress. And you know you are orbiting because your intent is to try and fuck her. You're not oblivious you know exactly what you're doing, to your own friend too.
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>guess it wouldn't be a good idea to make some move right after she's broken up
Say it ain't a good idea but it happens all the time. Accept rebounds as a fact of life.

>And it could ruin our friendship
Your friendship with her ain't worth shit. After you shoot your shot you'll either get the girl or be free to focus on another girl.

>>34443022
And what?
Giving up because it's current year? Chase girls in relationships? Fuck whoever try your luck? Wait for the elusive virgin Christian with every other male?

Stop orbiting
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>>34443005
your "friend" is used-goods
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>>34443236
Yup and it looks like she wants him more than the bf.

Good on you mate! Keep it up



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