I met a girl at a party. We talked for an our or so and we figured out we work close to each other. She said this is cool so we can have lunch together. We marked each other on Facebook as friends.A few days later i messages her that we hat a great convo at the party and we could go and have lunch together during work.She replied pretty late, a few days later. She apologized for replying late as she barely used Messenger and Facebook (true as she has very few friend on FB). She will be on a two week travel, but after that she will be contacting me.I said no problem, I also do not use Messenger that often. i said have a good trip and I am waiting for your contact. Was messaging her late night the same day. She checked my message early morning. So she does read messages, when important.What am i in for anons? i try to be chill, but I am also pretty excited.
Sounds like you're in for a lunch date
>>34445092This. Like, what's the point of this thread? Nothing happened yet.>>34445084OP, if you can't message a girl without seeking reassurance online, you probably shouldn't be trying to date in the first place, for your own sanity.
>>34445084A lunch date in like two weeks when she gets back
>>34445084And don't spend too much time analyzing her online status, her response time, her writing style... (Same goes for her IRL behavior.) There's nothing you can learn from it that can meaningfully improve your chances.Also, you have butterflies in your stomach, but you never used the word "date". Do you think it's a date? Does she think it's a date?
>>34445084>What am i in for anons?There's a reasonably good chance she'll have lunch with you.As other anons have said, it's not clear if this is actually going to be a date, or two people who might become platonic friends having lunch together. If it is a date, there is no guarantee there will be a second. But she clearly enjoys your company and you enjoy hers, so that's a good start. Remember that the aim here is not for you to be who she wants you to be, it's to be who you actually are, and see whether or not she likes that. If she doesn't, you move on and find someone who does.
I did not say date that is true.For a first time this is enough ad we can see if we want to continue or not. We are both in our late 30s (not some clueless teens), so it should be pretty obvious what my intentions are.Two weeks is killing be. i will be out of country also next week for a business trip, that might be relaxing.
>>34445209>it should be pretty obvious what my intentions are.It's never a good idea to make assumptions about what is or isn't obvious to someone.
