I have sent about 100 messages on hinge to women. I even bought the hinge subscription that puts your messages first in the inbox of women. I currently have zero replies. How over is it for me? Even with the bonus of my messages being first in the inbox, I got nothing. It feels so insanely over for me. I am not even sure what I can do to recover my confidence and self esteem. I am fried. Why the hell is online dating so hard and yet its the only avenue I can even attempt. Real life doesn't work. and apparently online dating doesn't work. What are my options? What am I missing? I have a friend that met his current girlfriend via a twitter DM or something. That would never work for me. I just don't know what to do. If I am being honest, my confidence is shot to hell because of this. 100 messages and priority on the message. Nothing. I even tailored all my messages specifically to the womans profile AND I only swiped on women I actually wanted to date.
>>34445896Stay off of dating apps, they don't work because it's not a (you) problem, they're actually rigged to force people to pay for premiums, and even then the girls their don't even want to fuck if have a relationship, for them the dating app is just emotional validation in their pocket. Something they look at whenever they feel down, they just look at the 100 notifications from 100 horny men and they get a kick out of it. It's cancer shit.Also online can work but you need to consider the internet isn't just www.hinge.com. you can meet a girl online just make sure it's not on a dating site or app.
>>34445896Nigga just go outside
>>34445896Your profile sucks. You aren't presenting yourself properly. You don't understand female psychology or what they look for when developing your profile. Et cetera.
>>34445928Simp coded shit, pussywhipping a guy on women's behalf. "You don't understand female psychology" lol. These bitches don't wanna understand yours
>>34445956That has nothing to do with simping. The men who understand female psychology the best are pimps.
>>34445896Wait are any of these matches or just the initially like with a message?
>I have a friend that met his current girlfriend via a twitter DM or something. That would never work for me.Get to the point where a Twitter dm would land you a date
>>34446003I have no matches. These are all just likes with a message that I sent. I am toast.
>>34445896>I have sent about 100 messages on hinge to women.That's your problem right there. If you'd sent ten high-quality messages instead of a hundred generic copy-and-paste jobs, you probably would have got a reply.
>>34446079>If only you knew how bad things really areBrother, I sent 100 TAILORED messages. No copy and paste. Every message was unique to the womans profile.
>>34445896>I have sent about 100 messages on hinge to women. I even bought the hinge subscription that puts your messages first in the inbox of women. I currently have zero repliesWhat you describe is not "dating" OP. You haven't dated anybody.
Sex dolls and body pillows are more cost-effective than dating.
>>34446345>Brother, I sent 100 TAILORED messages. No copy and paste. Every message was unique to the womans profile.Apps don't work for you, then. First thing is to uninstall and don't spend a penny more.
>>34446439You are right. But what are my alternative options? I honestly don't want to use online dating but I feel forced to do so. If I don't use them, my chances of meeting a woman will shrink to zero.
>>34447008Look at women objectively. Why do you need to meet one? Do you think its a basic need like drinking and eating? Do you want children? Are you insecure in your own skin? Do you lack meaning and direction in your life? A woman can set up one of these things
Its rigged anon. Personally I've stopped caring about ever getting a relationship because what I imagine from one simply isnt real. It sucks but there are many other things in life you can apply yourself to.
>>34448180Women aren't attracted to fish.
>>34445962>The men who understand female psychology the best are autistic. FTFY
>>34448180To be fair, he is obese and wears glasses. I doubt he has any photos of him doing any sports. These things are important on a dating profile.
>>34448196Of course, that’s why autists have the most success with women
Onions mujer, el me parece atractivo, también me gusta pescar y disfrutar de paisajesNo es imposible encontrar a alguien no te rindas
>>34445896>I only swiped on women I actually wanted to dateyou're not there yet. you need practice.and a higher self-esteem which will only come after some degree of successgo for the least desirable woman you'll still manage to get it up for when the time comes. fuck her and dump her.go for a slightly more attractive woman next, etc.t. anon who does OK with women even though he's nothing special looks-wise / money-wise
Onions mujer y me parece atractivo, me gusta la pesca y salir a la naturaleza, no te rindas
>>34445962>understand female psychologyyou don't get it.once you quit giving a fuck about what women think, anything becomes possible
>>34446072Give it a week especially if you just sent all this stuff out. Watch a video of a woman actually swiping on these apps. They are going to swipe left on dozens of dudes that are more attractive than you. There’s no rhyme or reason to it. It’s just a numbers game. Don’t take it too personally because they sure as hell don’t. I’d give it a month but after that at least stop paying for it and do the max free likes every day. It’s gonna take a lot more than 100 anon.
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Anons, I need strength. I'm relatively successful, have good investments, 5'11", 75kg, friends tell me I look fine, few girls tell me I look good, but I'm having no luck with women. I just turned 30.Is it over guys? I will keep trying, but god, please give me the strength to endure this. It's too much for my small brain. If I'm being punished for my sins, forgive me god.
>>34445896You usually don't find this sort of thing on a service like that. If you're genuine, just make new friends and meet new people, and eventually you'll meet someone who likes you; it can take a while, and some people just get lucky, but keep it in mind that's what you want, and then just navigate the world around you until you stick to someone you like and they stick to you. If you like someone, just tell them, and if you want to go out, just ask. The worst thing is they say no and you don't hang out with them anymore.
Que tal tu sentido del humor? Tus temas de conversación, no hagas caso a los comentarios sobre dinero, así solo atraerás a chicas interesadas, si buscas algo serio preocúpate por conocer a la persona, profundizar en sus gustos, conocer su personalidad e intentar apoyar sus hobbySi ella no hace lo mismo debes salir de ahí, todo debe ser recíproco
>>34447565I'll answer this because OP didn't. I don't look at women as a need, I look at them as a want. I'm fine without one, as a matter of fact I'm better off without any of the ones who cause drama or stress. However, the want is someone to spend a lot of time with, share things with, get to know. I can do this with friends, but what I don't do with friends are things like cuddle on the couch under a blanket or share a kiss here and there. I wouldn't even be in it for sex really, I'm fine with jacking off. I know you'll think that's BS, but I know myself. I even thought I was asexual for a time, but I am very much straight with a high libedo, but there are things about sex itself that I have issues with. (But that's another topic entirely, which I won't get into here.)Emotional closeness to and physical touch of a woman for me is a want, but for some it is a need and it has been scientifically proven that this closeness releases endorphins and improves mood. Being single is better than a bad relationship, but a good relationship is better than being single.
>>34449041Nah, the worst thing they can do is say yes and then it turns bad and they make your life miserable and take you for all you have.
I feel the same way. Most guys are only interested in looks, and I'm not comfortable with mine. Being Latina makes it hard to fit into a stereotype. I don't feel pretty, I'm not interesting, and I don't even have any friends because all I like to do is watch anime and play video games at 29 years old.Besides, guys are always looking for casual relationships.
