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I can't have a family because I physically can't get laid (5'7"), and the only thing I'm genuinely good at is graphics programming - which is almost exclusively related to videogames, which I've grown out of.
How can I find new meaning in life?
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>>34445969
Program yourself a gf.
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graphics programming all useful carries over to ocr applications for machine learning, navigating real things in 3d spaces, etc.
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>>34445969
you realize you can use a surrogate, right. fuck women who'll just take your children away through custody battle. if you want a family, and have the financial means to start one, do it.
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>>34446000
>intentionally condemn a child to a single-parent childhood
No.
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>>34445969
Read this with me.
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>>34446023
unintentionally condemning them and then being raised to hate you by your newly separated wife and their step father is a much worse fate.
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>>34445969
>I physically can't get laid (5'7")
Doesn't seem to have limited him (5'5")
or
Jesse Eisenberg , James McAvoy, Joe Rogan, etc etc (all 5'7")

Oh, and they were short before they were famous
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>I physically can't get laid
Do you mean you have ED? Go visit a doctor and he will prescribe you Viagra.
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>>34445969
Don't base your incompatibility on your height.
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>>34446023
single fathers generally have more psychologically healthy children than singke mothers
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>>34448336
>men are better bread winners and better parents than women
one more reason to be sexist i guess.
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>>34445969
>I can't have a family because I physically can't get laid (5'7")
I'm the exact same height as you OP and I have a wife and kids. I promise you, height isn't the problem. The problem is that you think there's a problem, that's the problem. You conflate the word "don't" with "can't". Stop doing that so much and you'll be fine. You don't have a family ≠ you can't have a family, you can. If my short ass could do it so can you. All you gotta do is meet with a girl and be kind to her, without expectation of return. She'll see you as someone safe and then you just date her. Don't overthink about what to say and what to do, just focus on being kind and loving and give it a couple of years and you will be a husband and a father.
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>>34448336
>single fathers generally have more psychologically healthy children than single mothers
That's true. It's because of our different roles to women. Women nurture the children, and men raise them. Women give birth to them and nurse them and keep them alive into independence, and the man makes an independent individual out of them. The woman dispenses comfort and vitality, the man dispenses discipline and wisdom.



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