>>34447103
why the fuck would you take a random person you literally never met from a discord serious?
get a fucking life nigger, nothing of this was ever real

>>34447118
>get a fucking life nigger
I don't have one, 4chan is my life

>>34447118
Also I don't really have people in my life so any interaction, even just online means a lot to me

sheesh theres so much to unpack. are you even being for real OP? is this a troll post?
>>34447129
>>34447140
sadqeq, same.
were you rangeb& last month too? couldnt fking post for 5 weeks.

except i dont have discord, literally and figuratively.
anona, you have problems, ebin big ones, if you want to date someone from /here/. (a virtual fake, incorporeal place)
regarding your post, you certainly come off as desperate and i say that as a virgin male myself. this is bad because bad actors exist and they might exploit you and leave you afterwards.
also your mindset is, lets say not optimal. you havent met the person irl and already are making excuses and concessions and so on. maybe there really is the perfect match for you waiting at the library or the community swimming pool. but how would you ever know if you never go outside of your room? go out and touch gras unironicly, without discord, of course.
because as the first post said, maybe he isnt even real but some glowie trying you and recruit u for his harem/glowOP/cult (discord is known for this)
the stars told me that many people might use this year to come out of their shell, find a lil luck. if you stay at home, start working out, so you get in shape at least. go and meet your parents again, hug them and tell them what. go for walks outside, feel the sun and air on your skin.
these things will change you and changes overall will make you not hate your life.

The best way to date online is to talk as little as possible. Don't talk about morals.
Search by location and meet up in a public location asap.
If you like the guy, date him. Ask him to choose you exclusively.

>>34447450
Unfortunately I am being for real. I've never been rangebanned, what makes you say that? I do go outside, it's just never a good time. Best case scenario is something neutral but let's just say, I am on 4chan for a reason and a guy has never asked me out irl.
>some glowie trying you and recruit u for his harem/glowOP/cult
I'm not that interesting and I don't post nudes or anything, that's what those types are looking for at the bare minimum.
I go for walks and stuff. I was exaggerating on having 0 life, I do have things I do outside of being on 4chan. I am just desperate for a relationship and painfully socially awkward. I've gotten better, but compared to normies I am so far behind it's not even funny.
>>34447486
>The best way to date online is to talk as little as possible. Don't talk about morals.
That sounds awful. Like I know not to bring up certain topics right off the bat but if we're not aligned that's not good either.

>>34447520
Oh and pretty much all of my hobbies/interests I do on my own for the most part. For the more social things, I have made 0 friends when I attempted joining groups. People don't fuck with me x 10

>>34447450
Also your typing style is very distinct and some of the things you mentioned are specific which makes me think I know you and it makes me sick to my stomach. Fuck this gay earth

>>34447520
>I've never been rangebanned, what makes you say that?
because i live in a bigger city and there are idiots on the bloc posting illegal stuff; getting my entire quadrant b&
>I am on 4chan for a reason
ah yes? and what would that reason be? (im in for the occult truths+wisdoms of the aeons, and luls ofc)
>a guy has never asked me out irl
are you sure? this is hard to believe, but ouch, have you reflected on why that may be? maybe they hit on you subtly but you were to dense?
asked your parents for their objective opinion maybe? ask your parents for some help&guidance?
>I am just desperate for a relationship and painfully socially awkward
ah, now we are getting closer. but then. who isnt around the chans. temperance and patience are virtues and good things come to people who are ready/prepared to receive
>I've gotten better
good for you, keep it up.
>compared to normies
meh, fuck normies. dont compare to them. compare to yourself, from one month/year ago, or maybe to your parents if they are respectable/good.
>>34447526
>hobbies/interests I do on my own
this is not bad, not at all. keep doing your hobbies.
>I have made 0 friends when I attempted joining groups.
but you have made contacts, acquintances, no? mb ask them their sober, objective view/feedback of you and who, they think, would be a matching character. note, this will take some personal strength of you, be ready for (harsh) critique. but at least thats gonna be truth. and you will know in what direction to work towards.
>don't fuck with me x 10
they dont with me either but i am more of the elevated, lofty, arrogant and superior type. and i like my tranquility and peace. they say God can be found in serenity
>>34447541
>typing style is very distinct and some of the things you mentioned are specific
well thank you. i always try 2 be above the pro fane masses and be as specific and helpful i can be @ /adv/
>I know you
u cant because i have 0 friends and dont use A-N-Y social media@all

>>34447601
Are you russian? You give russian vibes, if not good job on obscuring that.
A guy has never asked me out, but also I'm too retarded to recognize flirting if that ever happened. In a scenario where what I wanted to happen did happen, I wouldn't evne know how to show interest without coming off as a massive weirdo creep loser freak and scare the guy off (this has happened a couple times). I am legitimately socially retarded. My parents are a sore subject stop mentioning them so much please. I think asking people what I am like would seem narcissistic, and they would be polite enough to not give an actually helpful answer. I think total strangers would be better for that sort of thing.
>u cant because i have 0 friends and dont use A-N-Y social media@all
good, I wish I was more like you in that regard but I am desperate for a relationship

>>34447622
>Are you russian? You give russian vibes, if not good job on obscuring that.
gee, thanks. my parents are both ukrainian but i was born in a different country, back then, chernobyl exploded.
>I am legitimately socially retarded
have you tried a psychologist, a professional? in europe they are free and they do actually help more often than not, contrary to common belief. (they are the ones that do only talk with you, and find helpful, workable solutions with you, they arent the ones that medicate you to shit)
>coming off as a massive weirdo creep loser freak
anona, you need to change your mindset. this is genuinly a rather sad self concept/view.
do you know what euphemisms are? instead of saying "creep loser freak", you just are "very shy" and had a "well-sheltered" (mb away from the harsh society) upbringing and are a different/interesting/delicate character
>I think asking people what I am like
no, not how you are, but how they see you. your vibe, your feel. how others perceive you.
>total strangers would
not have a view of you enough to give any worthwhile feedback.
but i see your point.
>stop mentioning them so much please
well, any respectable guy, that wants something worthwhile is going to introduce himself to your (....), no matter what. maybe you dont know that but around /here/ it is estimated as a yellow/red flag if one has a bad relationship with their (....). i too, when i find my significant other am going to introduce myself to her (...). if they accept me or not, thats a different story, i dont care about.
>I am desperate for a relationship
but are you ready for one? as i mentioned, it is a lot of work to maintain and to grow. ppl nowadays are generally lazy and leave after the first conflict(s) too.
1/2

>>34447678
2/2
also there are vids on yt where they explain social cues for dummies. maybetake note of them and maybe emulate some for a change?
sometimes, a look with intent is already enough and a woman is already focused on me and my heart is exploding, sweating and spagedy on my sweater already. but thats just me
maybe throw out some looks, flutter ur eyelashes, twirl your hair idk women stuff.
if the threads still alive i might look l8r. im off for now.
mind over matter.
gl

>>34447520
>but if we're not aligned that's not good either
You'll know if you're aligned when you see him. Honestly, people like you I would have skipped over.

>>34447103
>I recently started talking to an anon from a different board for the prospects of dating
first mistake was trying to date an anon on here

>>34447103
>I recently started talking to an anon from a different board for the prospects of dating
Which board? What's the context under which you "met"?

>>34447678
I knew it! And yeah I have seen professionals, they all write me off and say I seem normal and fine and haven't been honest with me or try to get to the root of the issue. You're right that I should change my mindset, it's just so ingrained in me, I brought this up to them and they haven't helped with that either so I don't see a point in going back, they're expensive. I am ready for a relationship. I have seen some of those videos, but I'm like intermediate fucked up which are hard to find.
>>34447713
That's fine.
>>34447754
But why? They get me the most and easier to talk to
>>34447890
Respectfully, why do you need to know this?

>>34447520
>I dont post nudes
this is why men aren't interested

>>34448183
>this is why men aren't interested
This is good for me because it weeds out the type of guy I don't want. It just means I have limited options

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>>34448187
>I dont want men with a sex drive

>>34448190
I didn't say that, sex is a normal part of any relationship. It's much wiser to save it for in person or a serious long term relationship. Why would I send nudes to someone I just met?

>>34447103
>He did not mention me all day today. This means he's not interested right? Do I just delete him off discord?
Don't jump to those conclusions too quickly.

>>34447450
This is not /x/, schizo.

>>34447890
It's likely /soc/

>>34448168
>Respectfully, why do you need to know this?
Context

>>34447103
Clingy is so hot. Why can't i have clingy.

>>34448472
I don't think I'm all that clingy actually, just a bit intense.

>>34448472
clingy is great. i would really enjoy a relationship where a man wanted me around allllllll the time.. doing projects together, playing sports, just watching money is and hanging out in the yard with bbq grill... someone who would text me if we were doing our own thing and send silly memes to.

literally need bestie boyfriend

>>34450605
I don't understand how this isnt what MOST people want.

>>34448168
>I knew it!
:D
>You're right that I should change my mindset, it's just so ingrained in me
yeah its hard to change peoples mindsets if they arent flexible in their attic or are too stubborn/standoffish/dont wanna admit, especially if they have suboptimal zodiac signs and unfortunate indoctrination via school, but it is doable if you focus enough and know how to do it.
Insight is the first step to improvement.
>I am ready for a relationship
thats the first real positive thing i perceived from you anonette. sounds like you are confident in that and ready. good. build on that
>>34448343
thank you for the highest compliment anon